Why am I passionate about this?
Sophie Hannah is currently the world’s only ‘Grudge Guru’ and is desperately waiting and hoping for others to join her in the field (because it’s hard being the only person in the world actively working on such a vital aspect of the human psychological experience!) She is the author of How to Hold a Grudge: From Resentment to Contentment - The Power of Grudges to Improve Your Life - and is the creator and host of the popular podcast How to Hold a Grudge, which has so far run for five series, with a sixth currently in production. Sophie is also a bestselling crime writer who has published seventeen murder mysteries in which grudges play a key role.
Sophie's book list on grudges and the fascinating ways they manifest
Why did Sophie love this book?
I first discovered The Rose and the Yew Tree while searching for novels about irreparable rifts between once-close friends. I always seek out books that resonate, thematically, with any current emotional challenge that I have. At the time, I had just been sent the most vicious communication I’ve ever received in my life from someone I’d believed was a close friend. Her letter accused me of two things I hadn’t done, and I was absolutely floored by it.
Later, once I’d calmed down, I reread the WhatsApp messages I’d sent her in response to her letter, explaining that she was mistaken and that I had not done the things she’d accused me of. I was shocked by my own panicked and subservient tone. I recognised the palpable fear in my words, and I realised that I’d had only one goal at the time: to ward off further attack.
So, I…
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A captivating novel of love and intrigue.
Everyone expected Isabella Charteris, beautiful, sheltered and aristocratic, to marry her cousin Rupert when he came back from the War. It would have been such a suitable marriage. How strange then that John Gabriel, an ambitious and ruthless war hero, should appear in her life. For Isabella, the price of love would mean abandoning her dreams of home and happiness forever. For Gabriel, it would destroy his chance of a career and all his ambitions...
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