Why am I passionate about this?
In December 2000, my much-loved Grandma died. Her funeral was a standard 20-minute slot at the local crematorium, led by someone who didn’t know her. How I didn’t walk out, I’ll never know–but the experience certainly lit a fire under my work as an academic historian, which has burned ever since. As a historian, I’m passionate about what the past can teach us about how to die well: what makes for a good funeral, and for whom? How have our answers to these questions changed–or maybe not–over the decades and centuries?
Helen's book list on how to die well: past, present and future
Why did Helen love this book?
I realize that, like my own book, all my picks so far have been specifically about English funeral traditions. This is just because it’s such a vast topic, but once you get started, I’ve had to draw a line somewhere! So I’m redressing that with this choice, in which funeral director and Order of The Good Death founder Caitlin takes us on a whirlwind tour through assorted fascinating–and occasionally unsettling–traditions of death and burial around the world.
She finds some much healthier relationships with death and the dead out there and finishes with a clarion call to ‘haul our fear, shame, and grief surrounding death out into the disinfecting light of the sun.’
5 authors picked From Here to Eternity as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.
Fascinated by our pervasive fear of dead bodies, mortician Caitlin Doughty embarks on a global expedition to discover how other cultures care for the dead. From Zoroastrian sky burials to wish-granting Bolivian skulls, she investigates the world's funerary customs and expands our sense of what it means to treat the dead with dignity. Her account questions the rituals of the American funeral industry-especially chemical embalming-and suggests that the most effective traditions are those that allow mourners to personally attend to the body of the deceased. Exquisitely illustrated by artist Landis Blair, From Here to Eternity is an adventure into the…