Why am I passionate about this?
I had a very distinct vision of what kind of mother I would be: patient, kind, and creative. And I can be all of these things, but so too can I be frustrated, furious, and exhausted beyond belief. This contradictory experience of motherhood was what I wanted to explore in Spilt Milk and is the motherhood exposed in these five books which, while very different in form, share a willingness to acknowledge the darker and less curated aspects of a relationship that can be as stifling as it is wonderful.
Amy's book list on modern motherhood
Why did Amy love this book?
As Spilt Milk’s protagonist Bea Straw is a mum-blogger, I was keen to read experiences of real-life “mummy influencers”. Braithwaite’s book – part memoir, part manifesto – was of particular interest because she is Black, somewhat of a rarity in the picture of motherhood painted by social media that tends to be both very white and very middle class.
Documenting the difficult birth of her daughter and the subsequent mishandled complications, Braithwaite exposes the many and varied ways in which women of colour are disadvantaged and endangered by racial bias.
While light in tone, there’s a power and vulnerability in Braithwaite’s writing, and I learnt so much from this brilliant book.
1 author picked I Am Not Your Baby Mother as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.
*THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER*
'Really good ... accessible, sometimes shocking, honest, and feels written from the heart' - Bernardine Evaristo
'I gobbled it in one weekend and encourage everyone - mother, or otherwise - to do the same' - Pandora Sykes
'Remarkable' - Lorraine Kelly
'Searing' - Dolly Alderton
'I absolutely loved I Am Not Your Baby Mother' - Giovanna Fletcher
'Brilliant' - Sophie Ellis-Bextor
'An essential exploration of the realities of black motherhood in the UK' - Observer
'Urgent part-memoir, part-manifesto about black motherhood' - Red
'[An] original and much-needed guide to navigating black motherhood' - Cosmopolitan
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