Who am I?
I’m a husband, father, writer, and recovering addict – and not necessarily in that order. Early in my marriage, I became a full-blown, low-bottom cocaine addict. While it wasn’t surprising that active addiction nearly led to divorce, my wife and I were baffled and discouraged when my newfound sobriety brought its own existential marital issues. Frustratingly, there was a dearth of resources for couples in recovery, especially compared to the ample support available to recovering addicts. As an avid freelance writer, I decided to add to this sparse genre by sharing our struggles, setbacks, and successes en route to a happy, secure marriage.
Christopher's book list on couples recovering from addiction
Discover why each book is one of Christopher's favorite books.
Why did Christopher love this book?
What’s a book against language policing and cancel culture doing on a list about post-addiction marriage? Simple: the self-obsessed, oft-offended nonsense permeating universities exemplifies what married couples in recovery must roundly reject.
The book’s co-authors – a social psychologist and a free speech activist – profess three Great Untruths adversely affecting Generation Z:
What doesn’t kill you makes you weaker. This prompts us to avoid narratives challenging our preconceived notions or personal experiences.
Always trust your feelings. Among other problems, unquestionably trusting our feelings leads to taking offense when none is intended.
Life is a battle between good and evil people. This leads to a blame-first mentality that assumes the worst about others.
They may as well have been speaking to married couples attempting to stay together post-recovery.
5 authors picked The Coddling of the American Mind as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.
New York Times Bestseller * Finalist for the 2018 National Book Critics Circle Award in Nonfiction * A New York Times Notable Book * Bloomberg Best Book of 2018
"Their distinctive contribution to the higher-education debate is to meet safetyism on its own, psychological turf . . . Lukianoff and Haidt tell us that safetyism undermines the freedom of inquiry and speech that are indispensable to universities." -Jonathan Marks, Commentary
"The remedies the book outlines should be considered on college campuses, among parents of current and future students, and by anyone longing for a more sane society." -Pittsburgh Post-Gazette
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