I have known that I was gay since I was in second grade and kissed a boy on the playground. But that wasn’t the only way that I knew. Coaches, bullies, religion, and family warned me by namecalling, violence, and intimidation. It wasn’t until I was in college that I heard homosexuality portrayed in a positive light. Thank you, Walt Whitman. Then I saw The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Dessert, and knew that I had to go on my own adventure in search of my gay tribe. Novels can be a tribe. I hope the books on my list give you a place to find acceptance and love.
I wrote...
The Magus and The Fool
By
Akiva Hersh
What is my book about?
Carry Iverson needs a change of pace from his predictable life in Ohio. He takes a position with a social justice firm in Austin and rents a cottage on Lake Travis. At a bewildering dinner with his cousin, Donovan, his wife, Fallon, and an alluring transgender man, Levi, Carry discovers his neighbor is a wealthy and mysterious man who has everyone talking.
Carry’s curiosity turns into attraction after meeting the flirtatious Jacobi. But Jacobi has a secret desire of his own: he is in love with Donovan. Now Carry finds himself caught in the middle of a reckless love triangle with Fallon, who is hellbent on destroying Jacobi to keep her husband from straying. Passion and jealousy reach a fever pitch when the carefully designed lives of Carry, Donovan, Fallon, and Levi unravel.
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The Books I Picked & Why
Two Boys Kissing
By
David Levithan
Why this book?
Two Boys Kissing is a book about the culture and “inherited memory” of LGBTQ+ people. It is a crucial contribution because it bridges the generation of gay men living (and dying) through the AIDS crisis of the 1980s with the younger, modern LGTBQ+ generation who share similar challenges but haven’t connected to the wisdom of LGBTQ history.
The story and characters affirmed my identity, named my pain, and brought it within the collective history of those who have carried the same burdens of shame, fear, and self-loathing.
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Call Me by Your Name
By
André Aciman
Why this book?
Call Me By Your Name is not just about two young men falling in love in a time and place of extreme homophobia. It’s also about nagging doubt, fear of rejection (from self and others), and illustrates the pain of finding everything you need before you realized what that was—and then how to cope when you lose it.
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Tin Man
By
Sarah Winman
Why this book?
Tin Man weaves the beauty and meaning of Van Gogh’s oeuvre into a background for a story that is written like poetry. Time is a main character who is sometimes kind, but mostly cruel. Separation, loss, and longing are themes that all people can relate to but when seen through the perspective of a character who identifies as LGBTQ+ it heightens and clarifies those human experiences in a way that draws a reader from any background deeper into an exploration of what the passing of time means and the consequences of ignoring the herald of each minute that ticks by.
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The Song of Achilles
By
Madeline Miller
Why this book?
The Song of Achilles broke through my love-scarred heart and reminded me that finding someone in this lonely world is worth it. This novel is full of beauty: boys falling in love, fighting through conflict, and maturing into an eternal commitment no matter the cost. I came away with hope and yearning and those feelings alone stoke the fires to keep the search going.
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They Both Die at the End
By
Adam Silvera
Why this book?
They Both Die At The End deceives you at first because…the title! We know what is going to happen—or so it seems. But the themes of living life to the fullest and learning to trust yourself and others are really what is at the core of this book.
The main characters grab your heart and drag it through the streets of New York one fearful stop at a time. You stop wondering when or how they’re going to die (although that fear is neatly tucked in the back of your mind) and absorb the lessons they have to teach you. Keep a box of tissue nearby!
