Why am I passionate about this?

I love realm of the sensual. I sometimes call it The Magic Kingdom—the experience that sets us apart from our childhoods and teenage years. Intimacy—not just with people or lovers, but with the stuff we love as adults—is a compelling quest. For me, it lives in writing, cooking, singing, painting, befriending, loving—the things that lift my life out of the ordinary into time-stopping moments. Sharing it my writing, especially in my new fiction (Stay with Me, Wisconsin and my upcoming novel The Seven Mile Bridge) has been an experience of helping us all get our hands and hearts and skin into the things we love and then abide there as long as life allows us.


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Stay with Me, Wisconsin

By JoAnneh Nagler,

Book cover of Stay with Me, Wisconsin

What is my book about?

Eleven sensual and modern-day short stories about love, loss, devotion, family ties, desire, and overcoming. Set in the lake towns…

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The books I picked & why

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JoAnneh Nagler Why did I love this book?

Circling the Sun is based on the true story of Beryl Markham, a young Englishwoman who became the first person to fly across the Atlantic from England to North America.

We follow her adventures through Kenya as she’s abandoned by her mother, learns how to raise and race horses with her father, then becomes a pilot flying across the Kenyan plains.

The story’s central arc is her sensual awakening to men, her stumblings and fallings, her love for explorer Denis Finch Hatton, and the ways she struggles to make peace with her desire and her individualist, fiercely independent womanhood.

Set in the 1920s and 1930s, this is a truly literary and arousing tale. I love sensuality that doesn’t have to struggle too hard to find its physical touch—and this book does that. It’s a viscerally-told journey—in life and in love, in the arc we all must face as independent women to find our way.

It’s similar to my short story book, in that the sensuality is grounded in the literary interiority of adult steps taken which have gone good and bad; the reconnaissance and healing that’s so often required of our hearts to overcome, to look, to find, to see, and to accept.  

By Paula McLain,

Why should I read it?

5 authors picked Circling the Sun as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

The New York Times bestseller

As a young girl, Beryl Markham was brought to Kenya from Britain by parents dreaming of a new life. For her mother, the dream quickly turned sour, and she returned home; Beryl was brought up by her father, who switched between indulgence and heavy-handed authority, allowing her first to run wild on their farm, then incarcerating her in the classroom. The scourge of governesses and serial absconder from boarding school, by the age of sixteen Beryl had been catapulted into a disastrous marriage - but it was in facing up to this reality that she…


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JoAnneh Nagler Why did I love this book?

This is a delightfully easy-on-the-heart book about a small group of women in depression-era Kentucky who deliver library books on packhorses to the backward and sometimes unfriendly residents of a small mining community.

The bonds they make as women, living just outside the bounds of what society wants from them, illuminate the unfairness of what their town has imposed: a young British bride who is disillusioned when her new mining-baron’s-son husband won’t make love to her and finds her attempts at intimacy detestable; a feisty woman who’s in love with a good man, but won’t marry for fear of losing her independent choices; a young woman who incurred a limp from an accident, whose overprotective parents have kept her too close but who’s dying to have her own life.

As each woman climbs the isolated horse trails and backwoods to bring much-needed books to waiting children and isolated miners’ families, they face the prejudice of the mining baron’s controlling grip on the town—his bigotry and fear that books will give his put-down workers legs to stand on and minds of their own; that women in “his” town will end up having a voice.

His controlling, meanspirited acts nearly break the women, but with a small, fierce group of loyal townsfolk who love them, they finally find their way. What I loved about this book is the feeling of women-taking-on-their-own-lives-against-prejudice, and the theme that, no matter what the uphill battle, love will find a way.

The sensuality is mildly arousing (I usually like my sensuality more descriptive and in-the-room), but the characterizations carry the need and the yearning very well.

The heart-openings are somehow surprising but still inevitably fulfilling; the pairings are foiled and then not; the healings and the falling into another’s arms feel right and good and grounded in real life.

By Jojo Moyes,

Why should I read it?

7 authors picked The Giver of Stars as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER | A REESE WITHERSPOON X HELLO SUNSHINE BOOK CLUB PICK

"A great narrative about personal strength and really captures how books bring communities together." -Reese Witherspoon

From the author of The Last Letter from Your Lover, now a major motion picture on Netflix, a breathtaking story of five extraordinary women and their remarkable journey through the mountains of Kentucky and beyond in Depression-era America


Alice Wright marries handsome American Bennett Van Cleve, hoping to escape her stifling life in England. But small-town Kentucky quickly proves equally claustrophobic, especially living alongside her overbearing father-in-law. So when…


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JoAnneh Nagler Why did I love this book?

Anthropology of an American Girl is the beautiful tale of Eveline, who lives on Long Island with her barely-making it divorced mom in a wealthy Hamptons town in the late 1970s and 1980s.

It’s a coming-of-age story of finding her independence and need, best described in her own musings: she reveals that her parents loved her but were unaware of her need in the world to be shepherded and helped; to be supported.

They needed her to be instantly independent, even as a teenager, but that didn't make it so; because they didn’t have the bandwidth to see she needed direction, didn’t mean she knew where she was going.

Living through her love of a working-class boxer—a true love that she can’t quite put aside, even as he leaves her for a career—then moving in with a man she’s settled for—a hip, rich, self-centered man that she’s let herself fall in with—she finds she still must search her soul.

What makes for a grown-up woman’s choices? What’s right in the face of uphill circumstances that seem to have no solution but plague the heart anyway?

The arc of the story illuminates how she comes back to her original heart—the truth of what she thought she didn’t know, then found she did—until she makes a choice for her own true self.

It's the story of how we—and—and the literary characters who mirror us—come to know our real self: our heart, yearnings, longings, want, need—all of it—and how we find the courage to take steps on that path, and keep walking.

By Hilary Thayer Hamann,

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked Anthropology of an American Girl as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

This is what it’s like to be a high-school-age girl.
To forsake the boyfriend you once adored.
To meet the love of your life, who just happens to be your teacher.
To discover for the first time the power of your body and mind.
 
This is what it’s like to be a college-age woman.
To live through heartbreak.
To suffer the consequences of your choices.
To depend on others for survival but to have no one to trust but yourself.
 
This is Anthropology of an American Girl.
A literary sensation, this extraordinarily candid novel about the experience of growing up…


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JoAnneh Nagler Why did I love this book?

Laurie Colwin is by far my favorite fiction writer. She died in 1992 at the age of 48, and Goodbye Without Leaving is one of my all-time favorite books of hers.

In it, Geraldine Coleshares—a privileged graduate student who is unmoved by her insulated and expectation-laden world—goes on the road as backup singer for Ruby Shakely and the Shakettes—an Ike and Tina Turner-type rock and roll band.

Her parents are horrified and will barely speak to her when she calls them from the road, but there’s nothing she loves more than to stand on stage in a day-glow fringed dress, singing her heart out.

When love finds her in the form of a straight-ahead lawyer who adores her and knows every rock n roll and rhythm and blues artist from the last century, she grudgingly lets him in, and though she knows she loves him, she resists marriage at every signpost.

When Ruby Shakely finally makes the big time and lets her go, she settles into marriage, but with a twist and a tryst. The unlikeliness of all her choices—like all of Colwin’s characters—makes her lift off the page in heartfelt recognition. I try, in my own writing, to find the richness Colwin finds in her characterizations.

In my book of stories, the character Ponty Bayswater makes this kind of choice when he chooses a late-in-life love that upends and then affirms the years he lived before his wife died; Gil, too, in the story Leaving Lefty, leaves his cruel boyfriend and the high-fashion world of New York City for kindness and love. It’s a phenomenal thing to take a reader on a real-to-the-touch human journey, and I love this Laurie Colwin book for doing just that.

By Laurie Colwin,

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked Goodbye Without Leaving as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

One of the most beloved novels from the critically acclaimed novelist Laurie Colwin, Goodbye Without Leaving explores a woman’s attempts to reconcile her rock-and-roll past with her significantly more sedate family life as a wife and mother.

As a bored graduate student, Geraldine Colshares is plucked from her too-tame existence when she is invited to tour as the only White backup singer for Vernon and Ruby Shakely and the Shakettes. The exciting years she spends as a Shakette are a mixed blessing, however, because when she ultimately submits to a conventional life of marriage and children, she finds herself stuck…


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JoAnneh Nagler Why did I love this book?

This book is one of a four-part Pride and Prejudice sequel series that continues the romantic lives of Elizabeth Bennet and Fitzwilliam Darcy into their sex lives and family life.

It is, absolutely, an adult romp, and brilliantly written. Make no mistake, there are tons of sequels to Pride and Prejudice, but most only achieve wispy attempts at vanilla romance. If you love sensuality, these are the books to read.

The reason Jane Austen’s stories are is stellar is this: she knows how to build tension. Just like in love, she starts building a conflict, a distance between two hearts that has obstacle after obstacle to overcome, then teases us with little bits of promise, dashes our hopes, then raises the stakes and takes us to the edge of what we can stand, then lets us have a taste.

It takes the whole book to give us romantic fulfillment, and her works are good lessons for all of us in this modern-day era of quick romantic attachments. [please lose all else in this sentence.

No. There is no substitute, Austen is saying, for sussing out someone’s character. For finding out, over time—months and sometimes years—who will be devoted.

But as author Linda Berdoll has pointed out, Austen’s books stop just short of getting in bed. And so, in Berdoll’s books, Elizabeth and Darcy do it.

They make love. They have great sex. They have terrific romps. But the magic of Berdoll’s storytelling is that she uses the British vernacular of the historical time to describe sex: you’ll never read a modern-day slang word in her mix; you’ll never read anything harsh or crass, but you will be taken on a hot, vivid sexual journey.

That’s exactly what I try to do in my own fiction. I don’t leave out the good parts. I don’t want to—as an author—fade to a view of the lamp. No skipping the good parts! The naked moments are the payoff to the built-up tension. It’s land of adult intimacy.

Not all writers like to write sensuality, but I love it because sensuality is the divine realm of our adulthood. It’s not our childhood, or even our teen years when sex was awakening in us.

It’s the land of our search for heartfelt, true, devoted, inner-thigh trembling, yearning love. These books by Linda Berdoll have all of that, and I adore them. 

By Linda Berdoll,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Darcy & Elizabeth as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Mr. and Mrs. Darcy have an exceedingly passionate marriage in this continuing saga of one of the most exciting, intriguing couples in the Jane Austen Literature.

As the Darcy's raise their babies, enjoy their conjugal felicity and manage the great estate of Pemberley, the beloved characters from Jane Austen's original are joined by Linda Berdoll's imaginative new creations for a compelling, sexy and epic story guaranteed to keep you turning the pages and gasping with delight.

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Stay with Me, Wisconsin

By JoAnneh Nagler,

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What is my book about?

Eleven sensual and modern-day short stories about love, loss, devotion, family ties, desire, and overcoming. Set in the lake towns and suburbs of the country’s Midwestern heartland, they thread from one heart to another with extraordinary effectiveness and power.

With startlingly recognizable intimacy, Nagler awakens us to waves of yearning, moments of grief, bright flashes of sensuality, the binding ties of family, and the evocative electricity of falling into another’s arms.

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