The best picture books to develop your child’s Social Emotional Learning (SEL) skills in a fun way

Why am I passionate about this?

Growing up in an Iraqi Jewish immigrant family in Sydney, Australia, meant that I was always different, without the words or emotional tools to navigate the world around me. Luckily, I was a reader, and so I learned through books Social Emotional Learning (SEL) tools to deal with anxiety and loneliness and develop qualities of empathy, bravery, and the understanding that we don’t have to be the same but can celebrate our cultural and personal differences. Reading with children is a wonderful opportunity to enter their worlds whilst building their social and emotional skills, such as managing emotions, problem-solving, and creating positive relationships.


I wrote...

Book cover of This Is Not a Cholent

What is my book about?

Amira is eager to share her Nana's recipe in the "Best Cholent Competition Down Under.” But nobody is familiar with Amira’s dish, and everyone says, including the judges, “This is not a Cholent!”

I believe children should explore, be proud of, and share their own culture as Amira does with her Nana’s t’bit stew recipe, which was passed down from mother to daughter for generations. I wish I had had the words to share my Iraqi Jewish family story through my own grandmother’s t’bit recipe as a child. I hope this book inspires Social Emotional Learning (SEL) as parents and children discuss how sharing where we come from can provoke anxiety, but it’s important to share our unique heritages.

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The books I picked & why

Book cover of The Koala Who Could

Sarah Sassoon Why did I love this book?

This is such a cute, read-a-loud rhyming book about Kevin the Koala, who is frightened of change. I relate to how Kevin just wants to stay safe in his gumtree and never ever leave, but when his world literally collapses he has to face his anxieties.

It’s fun rooting for Kevin as he overcomes his anxiety, and I really felt the joy that comes with such courage and understanding that not every day has to be the same to stay safe. If Kevin can overcome his anxieties and leave his tree, then so can we. 

I also particularly love the Australian animals who encourage him along the way and make Kevin’s coming down from his tree so worth it.

By Rachel Bright, Jim Field (illustrator),

Why should I read it?

1 author picked The Koala Who Could as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 3, 4, and 5.

What is this book about?

A funny rhyming story about dealing with change and overcoming worries, from the bestselling creators of The Lion Inside.

In a wonderful place, at the breaking of dawn, where the breezes were soft and the sunshine was warm, a place where the creatures ran wild and played free ... A Koala called Kevin clung to a tree.

Meet Kevin. A koala who likes to keep things the same. Exactly the same. But sometimes change comes along whether we like it or not... And, as Kevin discovers, if you step outside your comfort zone and try new things, you might just…


Book cover of Inch and Grub: A Story About Cavemen

Sarah Sassoon Why did I love this book?

This book made me laugh out loud at the primal truth of two cavemen competing for who is the best—from cave size to fire burning to towering show-off technological feats that quickly spin manically out of control.

I really appreciate the message that to develop as a human species, we need to share and celebrate our resources together. I return to this book, which is written so simply and powerfully with wonderful illustrations, again and again with kids because it’s a hilarious reminder that mindless competition just leads us back into the cave. I want my kids to know that we can all be the "best" together.

By Alastair Chisholm, David Roberts (illustrator),

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Inch and Grub as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 3, 4, 5, and 6.

What is this book about?

Two cavemen desire the best of everything! But will their competitive games make them happy in the end?

Inch and Grub are two exquisitely hairy and competitive cavemen. Grub's cave is bigger, and he says that makes him the best. So Inch adds a water feature to his cave. But Grub has made fire! So Inch makes a chair. And a house. And a car. Grub, meanwhile, has accumulated a castle and a train and a radio! And so the contest spirals and spirals to ever ridiculous heights ... until they each have a HUGE wobbling mountain of stuff! From…


Book cover of A Moon for Moe and Mo

Sarah Sassoon Why did I love this book?

I love friendships in picture books, and this one is especially precious as it’s between a Muslim boy and a Jewish boy in Flatbush, New York. A friendship across cultures represented by special foods for each child’s cultural festivals is a wonderful gift to introduce children to.

I especially love how the children lead the way for their families to become friends. With my Iraqi Jewish background, I grew up knowing my grandparents had very close relations with their Muslim neighbors. And, of course, the recipes for rugelach and date cookies, which are included in the back matter, are an extra special bonus for me.

By Jane Breskin Zalben, Mehrdohkt Amini,

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked A Moon for Moe and Mo as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 3, 4, 5, and 6.

What is this book about?

An interfaith friendship develops when Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, overlaps with the Muslim holiday of Ramadan--an occurence that happens only once every thirty years or so.

Moses Feldman, a Jewish boy, lives at one end of Flatbush Avenue in Brooklyn, New York, while Mohammed Hassan, a Muslim boy, lives at the other. One day they meet at Sahadi's market while out shopping with their mothers and are mistaken for brothers. A friendship is born, and the boys bring their families together to share rugelach and date cookies in the park as they make a wish for peace.


Book cover of Me and My Fear

Sarah Sassoon Why did I love this book?

This is one of my favorite books about how to deal with fear. Fear is such a natural emotion, and sometimes it can be really intense; I loved how Francesca Sanna introduces Fear as a cute character, which children and adults can both relate to.

I know what it’s like to be a new kid in a new country, so when Fear grows so big that Fear overwhelms the little girl and takes over, I really felt for her. Of course, bravery is called for to overcome Fear and make friends with a new boy. For me, the most reassuring message was that the new friend also has his Fear character, who he carries with him, as we all do.

By Francesca Sanna,

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked Me and My Fear as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 3, 4, 5, and 6.

What is this book about?

A beautiful tale of conquering fears and spreading empathy from award-winning author and illustrator Francesca Sanna.When a young girl has to travel to a new country and start at a new school, her Fear tells her to be alone and afraid. How can she hope to make friends if she doesn't understand their language?

A heart-warming and relevant new tale from the bestselling author and illustrator of The Journey, this book shows us the importance of sharing your Fear with others - after all, everyone carries a Fear with them, even if it's small enough to fit into their pocket!


Book cover of No Longer Alone

Sarah Sassoon Why did I love this book?

I know what it is to be shy, so I love that No Longer Alone gives voice to some of the things a child who isn’t speaking up or joining in other kids’ games is thinking and feeling. Sometimes, we think shy kids are just shy, but really, they have a whole world going on inside them.

Through this picture book’s thoughtful prose and delightful pictures, I feel invited to understand the depths of children’s hearts and how they deal with loss. It serves as a reminder to me that it’s important to help my kids process their inside thoughts with their outside behaviors. 

By Joseph Coelho, Robyn Wilson-Owen (illustrator),

Why should I read it?

1 author picked No Longer Alone as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 3, 4, 5, and 6.

What is this book about?

A new picture book from award-winning performance poet, Joseph Coelho.

This touching picture book subtly deals with big emotions such as loss, with an uplifting and hopeful message about being yourself and the importance of family and talking about worries.

Told through the voice of a little girl who is labelled as quiet and shy, No Longer Alone follows her tumult of emotions as she navigates the world around her. But when she finally shares her feelings and tells her Dad all the things that are worrying her, she no longer feels so alone.

Joseph's warm, authentic voice offers an…


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Book cover of A Whale of a Tale: A Sabbath Summer Solstice Story

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