Motherhood blindsided me. I was 37 and living my childhood career dream as a foreign correspondent when I serendipitously smelled the head of a friend’s newborn. Next thing I knew, I was up all night singing old Beatles' songs to a baby who needed to eat every half hour. Amazed by the power of rudimentary biology to reshape my conscious experience, I couldn’t help but start writing about it, first in essays and then in two shameless motherhood books of my own: The Mommy Brain: How Motherhood Makes You Smarter (heavily inspired by SarahHrdy) and Buzz: A Year of Paying Attention (about sharing an ADHD diagnosis with my son).
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Mothers And Murderers: A True Story Of Love, Lies, Obsession ... and Second Chances
I read Operating Instructions during my own first son’s first year and so appreciated how deliciously and memorably shameless and taboo-smashing it was in describing everything from how Lamott’s friends kept reminding her about the “tiny poo” she left on the table during labor to the Radio KFKD constantly playing in her head to the appearance of an uncircumcised penis (if I recall correctly, something like a squirrel trapped in a garden hose?). Her fierceness, hilarity, and compassion helped me through one of the craziest times of my life.
This is the journal of the birth of Anne Lamott's son Sam, and their first year together. Coping with being a recovering alcoholic and a single mother, Anne had to face the fact that her best friend since childhood was dying of cancer.
What mother remembering her own labor wouldn’t be grateful to Rahna Reiko Rizzuto’s essay, “What My Mother Never Told Me, or How I Was Blindsided by Childbirth and Survived,” for her shameless revelations about the most terrifying and grubby aspects of a safe, normal vaginal delivery. It’s just one of the brilliant and necessary essays in a book that kept me company through the hardest and funniest parts of being a mom.
From the editors of the cutting-edge online magazine Salon come provocative essays that take an unflinching look at the gritty truths and unreserved pleasures of contemporary motherhood.
Mothers Who Think: Tales of Real-Life Parenthood, which grew out of Salon's popular daily department of the same name, comprises nearly forty essays by writers grappling with the new and compelling ideas that motherhood has dangled before them. Elevating the discussion of motherhood above the level of tantrum control and potty training, this collection covers an unparalleled range of topics, from the impossibility of loving your children equally to raising a son without…
Beginning in 1970, with “Up the Sandbox,” Roiphe was part of the first wave of shameless motherly truth-tellers. There are few more truer sentences than her acknowledgment that “feminism, despite its vast accomplishments, has not cured me of motherhood” in this poignant and prescient book about the impossible expectations that continue to bedevil working mothers.
The author of the best-selling novel Up the Sandbox offers a critical account of the feminist stance on marriage and motherhood, arguing for renewed support for the needs of working women trying to bring up children. 40,000 first printing. Tour.
Hrdy, a genius, is a renowned anthropologist and lyrical, powerful writer who, in this scholarly (150 pages of notes!) but compulsively readable book, tells us a lot of things we’ve never really wanted to acknowledge about motherly ambivalence throughout the animal world and certainly including humans. She is particularly wry and revealing about the biochemistry of motherhood, and how pregnancy, labor, and delivery all alter a mother’s brain.
Mother Nature is the big new popular science book for the end of the millennium. It starts from the standpoint of Darwinist evolutionary theory, but turns it on its head. It is the first such major book by a women, qho ia professor of SocioBiology at the University of California, trained in Anthropology and an expert on Primates in particular. She's also one of the few women members fo the US Academy of Sciences. It's not for nothing that Nature is known as Mother Nature. Evolution is controlled, Hrdy demonstrates, not by the male of species, but by the female…
This book, forthcoming from She Writes Press in 2023, is by a first-time author and mother of three who has for years counseled college applicants in Palo Alto, California, ground zero for educational anxiety. Smith combines beautiful writing, a wry comic sensibility, and indomitable courage in this all-too-timely timely book, which I was lucky to read pre-publication. She weaves together descriptions of the outlandish lengths to which some families will go to get their kids into the Ivies with scenes from her own backstage struggles to keep her children out of psychiatric hospitals. I’ve admired Smith’s incisive, delightfully shameless essays for years and couldn’t wait for her to publish this memoir, which deserves the widest possible readership.
Palo Alto, California, is an epicenter of seismic levels of teen stress and extravagant parental expectations. As a college counselor, Irena Smith works with some of the most high-achieving and tightly wound students in the world. Here, in the shadow of Stanford University, admission to a top college is the greatest expectation and the ultimate prize. Irena's own expectations as a mother, however, are strikingly different: after her oldest son is diagnosed with autism at age two, she and her husband put him through a behavioral intervention program as rigorous as any SAT boot camp in a quest to help…
This remarkable memoir by a Pulitzer Prize- and Polk Award-winning journalist takes readers on a wild, tragicomic ride from the criminal courtrooms of California’s Silicon Valley to the Himalayan mountains of Pakistan to the deserts of Ethiopia. In delightful, insightful prose, Katherine Ellison reflects on her mistakes and her triumphs as she reveals the stories of how her career almost ended before it began, how she nearly missed marrying the love of her life, and how she unwittingly got drawn into a bizarre murder case.
Rich in drama and self-reflection, replete with unique characters—including two bumbling hitmen, a rodeo-riding prosecutor, a flamboyant Beverly Hills defense attorney, and a charismatic stay-at-home mother-of-three who is keeping outrageous secrets—Mothers and Murderers is a memoir to make you laugh, cry, and think.
This irreverent biography provides a rare window into the music industry from a promoter’s perspective. From a young age, Peter Jest was determined to make a career in live music, and despite naysayers and obstacles, he did just that, bringing national acts to his college campus atUW-Milwaukee, booking thousands of concerts across Wisconsin and the Midwest, and opening Shank Hall, the beloved Milwaukee venue named after a club in the cult film This Is Spinal Tap.
Jest established lasting friendships with John Prine, Arlo Guthrie, and others, but ultimately, this book tells a universal story of love and hope…
We Had Fun and Nobody Died: Adventures of a Milwaukee Music Promoter
The entertaining and inspiring story of a stubbornly independent promoter and club owner
This irreverent biography provides a rare window into the music industry from a promoter’s perspective. From a young age, Peter Jest was determined to make a career in live music, and despite naysayers and obstacles, he did just that, bringing national acts to his college campus at UW–Milwaukee, booking thousands of concerts across Wisconsin and the Midwest, and opening Shank Hall, the beloved Milwaukee venue named after a club in the cult film This Is Spinal Tap.
This funny, nostalgia-inducing book details the lasting friendships Jest established…