The best children’s books for promoting social emotional learning

Why are we passionate about this?

Caroline and Katherine Brickley are twin sisters, award-winning children’s book authors, and content creators who specialize in producing literature and media that inspire children to believe in themselves and their ability to make the world a kinder, more inclusive place for everyone. Inspired by their mother, who made up stories for them each night, the sisters spent their childhood coming up with stories of their own and bringing them to life. The sisters made storytelling their full-time job in 2017 by founding Blossom Children’s Media Group from their shared college dorm room. Blossom continues to bring children, families, and educators from around the world together through wholesome stories and inclusive community experiences. 


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Book cover of The Friendly Bookshelf

What is our book about?

Once upon a time, in a library like any other, there lived a little bookshelf named Bibli who carried a BIG question on his shelves: “Could there be a story somewhere about a bookshelf like me?” Bibli is told that bookshelves are supposed to hold stories, not have ones of their own. But everything changes when he meets Cassie, a girl longing for a friend just as much as Bibli longs for a story to relate to. 

The Friendly Bookshelf is a social-emotional learning (SEL) research-based book and the first-ever picture book about a bookshelf. Written to build self-confidence and self-esteem as well as encourage inclusivity, Bibli’s story empowers children to be brave, be a friend, and always be your-shelf! Readers will be inspired to go beyond the final page of the book and share their own stories, as well as be the pioneers of a kinder, more inclusive world where everybody (and every bookshelf!) belongs.

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The books I picked & why

Book cover of Somebody Loves You, Mr. Hatch

Caroline & Katherine Brickley Why did I love this book?

When we were kids, this was one of our all-time favorite books to have read to us each and every evening. While an especially good story to read around Valentine’s Day, we loved hearing it all year round. Somebody Loves You, Mr. Hatch is a picture book about a lonely, older man who one day receives an extra-large box of chocolate with the note “Somebody loves you!” attached to it. The gift spurs this quiet, isolated man to open his eyes and heart to the world around him and reach out to others through acts of kindness. The new friends he makes are astounded by the kind and joyful person that he had been hiding inside himself all along.

This book uniquely speaks to the amazing things that can happen when we choose to treat others with kindness: not only can we develop meaningful, fulfilling friendships, but we can also make a meaningful impact in the people and communities that surround us that is much bigger than we could have ever imagined.

It also conveys what it means to be a friend: while enjoying happy moments together, being a good friend also means helping one another when things get hard or sad. Undoubtedly, these important themes found in Somebody Loves You, Mr. Hatch make it one of the best picture books to promote SEL at home or in the classroom and the first book on our list.

By Eileen Spinelli, Paul Yalowitz (illustrator),

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked Somebody Loves You, Mr. Hatch as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 4, 5, 6, and 7.

What is this book about?

One wintry day, a postman delivers a mysterious package with a big pink bow to a lonely man named Mr. Hatch.

"Somebody loves you," the note says.
"Somebody loves me!" Mr. Hatch sings as he dusts his living room.
"Somebody loves me!" Mr. Hatch whistles as he does his errands in town.
"But who," Mr. Hatch wonders, "could that somebody be?"

When Mr. Hatch discovers just who his secret admirer is, the answer is even better than he could have guessed!


Book cover of The Dot

Caroline & Katherine Brickley Why did I love this book?

A familiar favorite, The Dot by author-illustrator Paul Reynolds tells the story of a young girl named Vashti who believes she cannot draw. Her art teacher, seeing Vashti struggle, helps her develop confidence in herself by telling her to try drawing just a single dot and to sign her name at the bottom. The next day, Vashti finds that her dot had been hung up above her teacher’s desk, inspiring her to try painting another dot, and then another, and then another. Soon she has created an entire collection of many different dots. And in a moving twist, Vashti’s artwork inspires children who also think they cannot draw to give it a try.

The Dot by Paul Reynolds is one of our favorite books to teach the SEL themes of self-confidence and growth mindset; showcasing all that can happen when we choose to believe in ourselves and persist in the face of challenges. It also teaches children that by choosing to believe in ourselves, interestingly enough, we can inspire others to develop the confidence to do the same.

By Peter H. Reynolds,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked The Dot as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 5, 6, 7, and 8.

What is this book about?

One little dot marks the beginning of Vashti's journey of surprise and self-discovery in Peter H. Reynolds' multiple award-winning modern classic.

In this inspiring, award-winning story of self-expression and creativity from Peter H. Reynolds, illustrator of Ish and the Judy Moody series, Vashti thinks she can't draw. But her teacher is sure that she can. She knows that there's creative spirit in everyone, and encourages Vashti to sign the angry dot she makes in frustration on a piece of paper. This act makes Vashti look at herself a little differently, and helps her discover that where there's a dot there's…


Book cover of The Day the Crayons Quit

Caroline & Katherine Brickley Why did I love this book?

Another popular children’s picture book, The Day the Crayons Quit, is most definitely our silliest SEL pick. But just because this picture book is on the funnier side doesn’t mean it doesn’t have important messages to share. The book notoriously consists of letters from a child’s crayons, each letter detailing why the crayon needed to take the day off.

Why do we think this is a great choice to promote social-emotional learning? The first reason is that it allows children to think from the perspective of each crayon and why they felt the need to take a break from their daily coloring activities; a creative way for children to practice empathy. The second reason is that the story is undoubtedly a celebration of diversity. As children flip the pages of the storybook, they will delight in the different crayons they encounter and what makes them each unique.

By Drew Daywalt, Oliver Jeffers (illustrator),

Why should I read it?

3 authors picked The Day the Crayons Quit as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 3, 4, 5, and 6.

What is this book about?

The Number One New York Times Bestseller!

Debut author Drew Daywalt and international bestseller Oliver Jeffers team up to create a colourful solution to a crayon-based crisis in this playful, imaginative story that will have children laughing and playing with their crayons in a whole new way.

Poor Duncan just wants to colour in. But when he opens his box of crayons, he only finds letters, all saying the same thing: We quit!

Beige is tired of playing second fiddle to Brown, Blue needs a break from colouring in all that water, while Pink just wants to be used. Green…


Book cover of The Hundred Dresses

Caroline & Katherine Brickley Why did I love this book?

While The Hundred Dresses is not exactly a picture book being 80 pages long, we cannot think of a better story for children that captures the importance of inclusion and empathy (and that can be enjoyed by children and adults of all ages!). It’s also a great way to get younger readers engaging in longer texts. A Newbery Honor Book, The Hundred Dresses is about Wanda Petronski, a Polish girl who is excluded and bullied by her classmates for wearing only one shabby, sky blue dress. While the book is about Wanda, it is written from the perspective of Maddie: one of Wanda’s classmates who is unable to stand up to one of Wanda’s most active bullies – her best friend, Peggy.

As the story goes on, readers watch as Maddie begins to understand that her words, or lack of them, affect Wanda: a quiet young girl who in the face of unkindness, chooses to gift her bullies with beautiful, colorful illustrations of dresses. In doing so, The Hundred Dresses allows young readers to recognize how important it is to practice empathy when interacting with others, as well as that we are responsible for creating inclusive spaces where people feel safe and that they belong. While it requires courage to be an upstander, The Hundred Dresses shows children that we all have the power to act with kindness, making it a great book to promote SEL themes and encourage its reader to make the world beyond the story’s final page a little better, too.

By Eleanor Estes, Louis Slobodkin (illustrator),

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked The Hundred Dresses as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 6, 7, 8, and 9.

What is this book about?

This Newbery Honor classic, illustrated by a Caldecott Medalist, is a beautifully written tribute to the power of kindness, acceptance, and standing up for what's right.

Wanda Petronski is ridiculed by her classmates for wearing the same faded blue dress every day. She claims she has one hundred dresses at home, but everyone knows she doesn’t. When Wanda is pulled out of school one day, the class feels terrible, and classmate Maddie decides that she is "never going to stand by and say nothing again."

A timeless, gentle tale about bullies, bystanders, and having the courage to speak up.


Book cover of Miss Rumphius

Caroline & Katherine Brickley Why did I love this book?

We will end our list with one of our mother’s favorite books, Miss Rumphius: A book that has inspired her so much that every spring she will spread lupine seeds around the house saying “I am just like Miss Rumphius!”

The story begins when Miss Rumphius was just a child. Called Alice back then, Alice shares with her grandfather that just like him, she will travel to faraway places and one day live by the sea. But her grandfather tells her that she is missing something: "You must do something to make the world more beautiful,” her grandfather tells her.

Ms. Rumphius grows up and sets out to do all she wished to do. She travels all around the world, experiencing many different jobs and meeting many new people. And when she grows older she finds a nice home by the sea to live in. But there is one thing she has still not yet done: "You must do something to make the world more beautiful," she remembers her grandfather telling her.

Ms. Rumphius, feeling ill now, is not sure what she can do. But when spring comes she goes outside and finds that the lupines she had planted two springs ago had spread their seeds and were growing in new places. Inspired, she takes a journey around her town throwing lupine seeds all around even though others call her “The Crazy Old Lady.” The next year, beautiful, colorful lupines are everywhere. And every year, more grow all because of just one person.

We think this is the perfect book to end our list with as it reminds us that just one person is capable of very big things, whether it be being kind to others like Mr. Hatch, standing up for others like Maddie, or making the world a little more beautiful for everyone like Miss Rumphius. At the heart of SEL is the idea that we are all capable of acting in positive ways that meaningfully impact the people and places around us even if, like Miss Rumphius’s story teaches us, we may “not know yet what that can be.”

By Barbara Cooney,

Why should I read it?

5 authors picked Miss Rumphius as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 5, 6, 7, and 8.

What is this book about?

Alice made a promise to make the world a more beautiful place, then a seed of an idea is planted and blossoms into a beautiful plan.  This beloved classic and celebration of nature—written by a beloved Caldecott winner—is lovelier than ever!

Barbara Cooney's story of Alice Rumphius, who longed to travel the world, live in a house by the sea, and do something to make the world more beautiful, has a timeless quality that resonates with each new generation. The countless lupines that bloom along the coast of Maine are the legacy of the real Miss Rumphius, the Lupine Lady,…


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Book cover of A Whale of a Tale: A Sabbath Summer Solstice Story

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