Why am I passionate about this?

I am an immigrant who has successfully pursued the American dream, living it now for 50 years. After 10 years as a Professor at the University of Massachusetts, I spent 40 years in the Sports and Entertainment business, capped by building my own marketing agency, The Aspire Group, which has generated $1.75B in revenues for 300 iconic sports properties globally. While I’ve been able to make the dream a reality for myself and my family, I believe it has become out of reach for too many. I want to show my appreciation for Americans adopting me by revitalizing the aspirational elements of that dream and making it attainable for all.  


I wrote

Reimagining America's Dream: Making It Attainable for All

By Bernie J. Mullin,

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What is my book about?

I examine how the American Dream has faded for too many in my book. I look at the top 10…

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The books I picked & why

Book cover of Row the Boat: A Never-Give-Up Approach to Lead with Enthusiasm and Optimism and Improve Your Team and Culture

Bernie J. Mullin Why did I love this book?

I have read numerous Jon Gordon books over the years, such as The Energy Bus, The Hard Hat, and The One Truth. They are always quick and simple reads that impart great points that I’ve found immediately implementable.

This one was a fun book to read, and it immediately got me psyched to have my senior staff implement its lessons. It particularly struck a chord for me because I know Gordon’s co-author, PJ Fleck, from his days as Head Football Coach at Western Michigan University. His analogy of “The Oar” as the source of the energy and “The Boat” as the team coming together in common sacrifice was particularly telling as I read the book shortly after seeing the movie, The Boys in the Boat, about the University of Washington 1936 Olympic gold medal-winning crew team.

At my organization, Aspire, we’ve incorporated these concepts, lessons, and philosophies into our staff training and executive development. I’m an optimist, and I built a multi-million-dollar business and company based on these principles. That’s what PJ’s life and career are all about—enthusiasm and optimism.

By Jon Gordon, P.J. Fleck,

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked Row the Boat as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Learn to live and lead with enthusiasm and optimism, impact your team, and transform your culture

In Row the Boat, Minnesota Golden Gophers Head Coach P.J. Fleck and bestselling author Jon Gordon deliver an inspiring message about what you can achieve when you approach life with a never-give-up philosophy. The book shows you how to choose enthusiasm and optimism as your guiding lights instead of being defined by circumstances and events outside of your control.

Discover how to put the three key components of row the boat into practice in your life:

The Oar: The energy. Only you can dictate…


Book cover of The Twin Thieves: How Great Leaders Build Great Teams

Bernie J. Mullin Why did I love this book?

Twin Thieves is a true story whose main message is simple and reinforces what I know to be true—great teams are built first and foremost by great leaders. The focus is on overcoming the two biggest fears that most of us have as athletes, coaches, and/or leaders of teams—the fear of failure and of being judged unfavorably.

In reading the book, one of the first things that came to mind was the old adage: “Everyone wants to go to heaven, but no one is willing to die first.” The trick in applying this book to enhance my leadership style was to recall and tap into how I’ve overcome those fears in my life as an athlete, team member, coach, and executive. I personally learned how to get all, or at least the majority, of team members to channel those fears into positive energy.

By Steve Jones, Lucas Jadin,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked The Twin Thieves as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

INSIDE THE BOOK

Tired of underperforming in the biggest moments, the Westlake Aviators football team realizes their greatest challenge isn’t beating an opponent but rather rising above the Twin Thieves: the Fear of Failure and the Fear of Judgment. Through a journey of adversity, celebration, and heartbreak, the Aviators come to understand that great teams are built by great leaders.

This powerful story serves as a playbook for anybody in business, sports, education, or life looking to help a group of people maximize their potential.

Some things you will learn…

Everybody wants a championship team until it’s time to do…


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Who Will Take Care of Me When I'm Old? By Joy Loverde,

Everything you need to know to plan for your own safe, financially secure, healthy, and happy old age.

For those who have no support system in place, the thought of aging without help can be a frightening, isolating prospect. Whether you have friends and family ready and able to help…

Book cover of The Fourth Quarter of Your Life: Embracing What Matters Most

Bernie J. Mullin Why did I love this book?

I recently turned 75, and my son told me, “Dad, you’re now entering the 4th quarter of your life.” The book quite simply spoke to me and where my head has been for the last 2 to 3 years as I made the decision to sell my company, The Aspire Group. I had plenty of time to think through the lessons of this book—what did I really need and want from selling the business? What ongoing lifestyle did I want? What outcomes did I want, and how much money did it really take to achieve those goals and live that kind of life?

During three years of extreme pressure, there was a lot of introspection while getting the business into the right shape to put it out on the market and then negotiating the sale terms. The only way to continue to run my business, stay sane and afloat, and progress the sale was for me to stay true to the central tenant of this book, which was to embrace what matters most.

A major philosophy in my book was inspired by reading this book—specifically, the realization that what matters most to me is a healthy, balanced life. 

By Allen R. Hunt, Matthew Kelly,

Why should I read it?

3 authors picked The Fourth Quarter of Your Life as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Whether you are in the fourth quarter of life or not, this book will change the way you live the rest of your life.

Intentionality is the key to successful fourth quarter living. People don’t accidentally age gracefully. People don’t accidentally die peacefully. And people don’t accidentally leave behind legacies of hope, love, and encouragement. These all require the intentionality this book will help you develop.

The purpose of this practical guide is to help you...

Live the fourth quarter based on proven life principles Clearly establish meaning and direction for your life Develop the clarity necessary to make good…


Book cover of How to Win at the Sport of Business: If I Can Do It, You Can Do It

Bernie J. Mullin Why did I love this book?

I know Mark Cuban from when I was SVP of Marketing and Team Business at the National Basketball Association (NBA) in the early 2000s. When he bought the Dallas Mavericks franchise, I had just created the NBA Owners 101 program to introduce new team owners to the assets they’d acquired. Mark was as fascinating then as he is now, although less famous.

I spent two days getting to know him and telling him what he was buying. Since that time, he has only become more fascinating to me. When I read this unusual book several years ago, his advice was exactly what I’d witnessed from him in person—completely unique and different. Namely, the businesses started with no money are those you’re really passionate about; learn how to learn first; embrace technology; only associate yourself with those who are equally passionate about the business, and learn from failure. His other key points that have stuck with me are ensuring you always keep score and sell your skills. 

By Mark Cuban,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked How to Win at the Sport of Business as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

"Cuban [explains] what it means to have 'the edge,' the necessary drive to forego the confines of a comfortable job, triumph over setbacks, and build a successful company." -Business Insider

"Exceeded . . . expectations." -Huffington Post

Now celebrating over ten years of How to Win at the Sport of Business, Mark Cuban, one of the world's wealthiest and most influential businessmen, collects his greatest lessons on what it takes to become a thriving entrepreneur. Drawing upon his profound insider knowledge, Cuban offers unconventional business tips and tells his stunning rags-to-riches tale from selling powdered milk and sleeping on friends'…


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Locked In Locked Out By Shawn Jennings,

Can there be life after a brainstem stroke?

After Dr. Shawn Jennings, a busy family physician, suffered a brainstem stroke on May 13, 1999, he woke from a coma locked inside his body, aware and alert but unable to communicate or move. Once he regained limited movement in his left…

Book cover of Turn the Ship Around! A True Story of Turning Followers into Leaders

Bernie J. Mullin Why did I love this book?

Captain Marquette’s YouTube video inspired me to create a highly productive team using independent thinking. Then, reading his book really spoke to me because it resonated with my first working experience outside the University of Massachusetts—namely, with the Pittsburgh Pirates as SVP of Business. The Pirates were the worst team in Major League Baseball then, losing over 100 games per season, drawing only 7,000 fans per game, and losing $10M annually. The staff were deflated and defeated.

After getting direct input from the senior staff, I planned the Pirates turnaround in three stages: 1. Stop the ship sailing in the wrong direction; 2. Turn the ship around; 3. Gain speed and momentum in the right direction. I think the key statement in Marquette’s book is, “It doesn’t matter how smart the plan is if the staff can’t execute it.”

I read this landmark book well after being at the Pirates and related to Captain Marquette’s story of turning around one of the worst ships in the US Navy, the nuclear submarine Santa Fe, from worst to first in record time. I’ve internalized his advice on turning followers into leaders by dismissing the 7 myths of leadership, starting with the fact that good leaders actually don’t know all the answers.

He believes that good leadership should be about training people in what to do (not just doing what they’re told to do) and tuning the level of control they offer to their staff dependent on their experience—empowering, delegating, and dispersing responsibility only once they’re ready for it—were huge takeaways.

By L. David Marquet,

Why should I read it?

4 authors picked Turn the Ship Around! A True Story of Turning Followers into Leaders as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

"Leadership should mean giving control rather than taking control and creating leaders rather than forging followers."

David Marquet, an experienced Navy officer, was used to giving orders. As newly appointed captain of the USS Santa Fe, a nuclear-powered submarine, he was responsible for more than a hundred sailors, deep in the sea. In this high-stress environment, where there is no margin for error, it was crucial his men did their job and did it well. But the ship was dogged by poor morale, poor performance, and the worst retention in the fleet.

Marquet acted like any other captain until, one…


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Reimagining America's Dream: Making It Attainable for All

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What is my book about?

I examine how the American Dream has faded for too many in my book. I look at the top 10 social issues that our country is wrestling with today and concisely outline an “American Prescription” that starts with reducing poverty by investing in free education for our youth.

Using predominantly self-funded approaches, I carefully detail the programmatic costs and likely financial returns of all his recommendations in the short, medium, and long term. Then, I outline the impact this could have on the future benefit of our children and American society as a whole. I am devoting all proceeds from the book to The Aspire Difference Foundation, which provides financial and educational support for single-parent families with preschool children.

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