Why did I love this book?
I have never read anything filled with such wisdom, psychological insight, and practical suggestions for personal transformation.
Far from a self-help book, When Things Fall Apart encourages the reader to develop a straightforward relationship with reality—the world around us. This elderly American Buddhist nun presents a compelling case that we need to accept all of it, including a willingness to experience our own distress—and learn from it.
I’ve tried writing about these topics in a non-fiction format and never matched Chodrin’s elegant, simple style. I fold in many of the same ideas in my novels via my characters’ voices, which works for me. My wife and I have been reading this book aloud to each other on Saturday mornings and discussing whatever relevance to our lives a given chapter has.
8 authors picked When Things Fall Apart as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.
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