Tiny Beautiful Things

This book took my breath away.

This is no pithy or glib advice column book bound by word counts and editorial edits. Her advice is lengthy and considered and beautifully interwoven with her poignant personal stories. Her advice is raw and poetic. Not flowery or pretty poetry, but punch you in your soul, pierce directly into your heart truth bombs.

It’s tough love to the extreme. Every single entry took my breath away with its unflinching rawness. And, at the same time, delivered with compassion and care that I felt somehow … loved. There’s humor in this book, but it’s… show more.

Before Wild, before Reese found her, before I even knew how to do my taxes, Cheryl Strayed was the anonymous voice behind the “Dear Sugar” column in online lit mag The Rumpus. Over her tenure, she answered some of the most achingly beautiful/painful letters that people wrote in, and with such smack-you-upside-the-head affection that one cannot help but fall in love with the human behind each tender inquiry.

Strayed is one of those rare writers whom I believe when she says that she woke in the night to answer these letters simply because she cared so much about… show more.

I love this book because Cheryl Strayed loved and was loved by her mother in exactly the same way that I loved and was loved by my mother. Although Cheryl was in her twenties when her mother died, and I was in my forties, I relate to her experience of grief and the endless longing of missing on a visceral level.

Strayed understands emotional pain and is able to relate to it in a way that brought tears to my eyes. I regularly wept while reading this book, yet she made me feel less alone. I love this book because… show more.

Reading this book of advice columns felt like therapy. It validates difficult feelings, such as the decision to end a long-term relationship, and offers sharp yet compassionate takes on the many challenges people face in life. I laughed and cried.

The stories stayed with me long after I finished, and I still seek out certain essays or refer them to loved ones going through a hard time.