Why did I love this book?
This book was originally published in 1929 anonymously, because it was a scandal. The fact that a writer would write about a woman who has multiple affairs and is clearly promiscuous was unheard of, so the writer was protected with an anonymous publication.
I could not stop reading this incredible and seminal book for the main reason that the language is so fresh. It was unlike any other vintage or antique novel that I’ve read, and I’ve read a few, as I collect antique books.
The main protagonist in the book is a woman, a woman writer who has recently been divorced by her husband, also a writer. The issues she writes about, as a woman, are utterly timeless. The scene where she admits she’s been unfaithful to her husband (they are both young and in their 20s) and he acts as if he doesn’t care, saying: “And I thought you were always such a clean woman,” but then retreats into their bedroom and sobs facedown on the bed, are universal and entirely human in their scope. The regret that they both end up feeling from the passage of time and from the falling out of love is also timeless. I was mesmerized while reading this lovely and important book. I kept wondering how it could have been written in 1929.
The language, so modern, so entirely American, is what captured my interest. I was lucky enough to buy a lovely 1929 sixth edition of the book, and I treasure it. In many respects, this is a book that should have been as big as The Great Gatsby, but, of course, that could never happen, given that the author was a woman and the publishers knew that.
Still, it was a HUGE bestseller, and eventually, the name of the woman writer became known, Ursula Parrott. The book is also basically autobiographical, detailing her first marriage to New York Times reporter and journalist Lindesay Marc Parrott and their on and off again love, which spanned decades. While reading the book, you look for connections to their real life. A mesmerizing read.
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An instant bestseller when it was published anonymously in 1929, Ex-Wife is the story of a divorce and its aftermath that scandalized the Jazz Age—and still resonates today.
It's 1924, and Peter and Patricia have what looks to be a very modern marriage. Both drink. Both smoke. Both work, Patricia as a head copywriter at a major department store. When it comes to sex with other people, both believe in “the honesty policy.” Until they don‘t. Or, at least, until Peter doesn‘t—and a shell-shocked, lovesick Patricia finds herself starting out all over again, but this time around as a different…