What the Living Do
Book description
Informed by the death of a beloved brother, here are the stories of childhood, its thicket of sex and sorrow and joy, boys and girls growing into men and women, stories of a brother who in his dying could teach how to be most alive. What the Living Do reflectsâŚ
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2 authors picked What the Living Do as one of their favorite books. Why do they recommend it?
Marieâs poems are separated into three sections: childhood (which included an alcoholic and abusive father), the illness and death of her brother Johnny from AIDS, and life beyond his death, including her relationship with James Shannon, a tree surgeon and a fisherman. They were like lifelines to me after Jeffrey died.
I memorized the title poem and said it repeatedly in my head like a litany. These poems are clearly spoken; life boiled down to a stock with the healing power of fresh air and cool water. No other book of poems has ever helped me so much through aâŚ
From Ricky's list on saving my life when I was miserable.
Iâve probably read this amazing book more than any other book of poems. It is Howeâs elegy to her brother John, who died of an AIDS-related illness in 1989. I love how the book reads almost like a novel in verse, returning to her brother time and again. Howeâs poems bring together the physical and spiritual in transcendent ways. It was one the of first books I reread after I lost my mother during the pandemicâa companion during my grief. The famous title poem explores the everydayness of life even after lossâclogged kitchen sinks, groceries, parking the car, all thatâŚ
From Nicholas' list on grief: literary companions after loss.
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