A Pros and Cons List for Strong Feelings

By Will Betke-Brunswick,

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A Finalist for the 2022 Lambda Literary Award for LGBTQ+ Comics

A Modern Mrs. Darcy's Best Book of Fall

A Shondaland Best Book of November

“Filled with moments of tenderness and humor.” ―Library Journal, Starred Review

An unexpected and poignant debut graphic memoir about a close-knit family approaching loss, and…

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1 author picked A Pros and Cons List for Strong Feelings as one of their favorite books. Why do they recommend it?

Will Betke-Brunswick’s book is a gem of a graphic memoir that skillfully navigates both hope and loss.

As much a story about coming of age in a queer body as an illness narrative, I was struck by the playful tone of the illustrations (Betke-Brunswick depicts themself and other human characters as penguins) juxtaposed against the serious nature of the subject matter—the slow goodbye and ongoing grief of losing a mother to cancer. It’s a combination that doesn’t seem like it should work, but the resulting story is resonant and unforgettable.

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