On Not Being Someone Else

By Andrew H. Miller,

Book cover of On Not Being Someone Else: Tales of Our Unled Lives

Book description

A captivating book about the emotional and literary power of the lives we might have lived had our chances or choices been different.

We each live one life, formed by paths taken and untaken. Choosing a job, getting married, deciding on a place to live or whether to have children-every…

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Why read it?

1 author picked On Not Being Someone Else as one of their favorite books. Why do they recommend it?

This poetic book by a literary scholar looks at the way we think about and experience not only the lives we lead, but those alternative lives that we do not lead. 

Our thoughts can lead us to obsessively regret our choices or focus on “the road not taken.” Miller looks at the sense of loss that can accrue as the potential transitions to the actual. 

He describes our unled lives as “part of this world as shadows are part of things…”    

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