Notes on Grief

By Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie,

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A personal and powerful essay on loss from Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, the bestselling author of Americanah and Half of a Yellow Sun.

'Grief is a cruel kind of education. You learn how ungentle mourning can be, how full of anger. You learn how glib condolences can feel. You learn how…

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Why read it?

2 authors picked Notes on Grief as one of their favorite books. Why do they recommend it?

I admire the author's ability to write about the conflicting mesh of emotions she had to cope with after her father's unexpected demise. After losing my mother in 2021, I realized that grief isn't a linear process. Instead, it often felt like I was navigating unfamiliar terrain without a roadmap.

Adichie's memoir helped me understand that grief is a “cruel kind of education,” and we need to equip ourselves for it by having more meaningful conversations about death. Notes on Grief also encouraged me to view grief as an opportunity for self-reflection and spiritual growth.

From Taha's list on cope with death and grief.

This book dives in head-first to the concepts of sudden loss.

When you lose someone, it can never be explained as easy – but losing someone when you had no idea they would be gone so soon is the least easy way to watch them go. This book shows how many of us are connected by grief and loss, and how important conversation and connection are for the sake of getting better.

Plus, the book is in relation to loss during the COVID-19 pandemic, adding another layer of relatability to thousands of people. 

From Bella's list on feeling validated in your grief.

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