Inciting Joy

By Ross Gay,

Book cover of Inciting Joy: Essays

Book description

A collection of gorgeously written and timely pieces in which prize-winning poet and author Ross Gay considers the joy we incite when we care for each other, especially during life's inevitable hardships.

In "We Kin" he thinks about the garden (especially around August, when the zucchini and tomatoes come on)…

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4 authors picked Inciting Joy as one of their favorite books. Why do they recommend it?

Joy might not be the first thing you think of when considering grief, but then maybe you haven’t read Ross Gay.

Gay understands that joy exists because of grief, not as a counterbalance, but in a deeply reciprocal relationship. As his father is dying, he presses their faces together, and in his father’s freckles, he sees seeds, a garden. It is just one instance in this book where Gay recognizes that what grows from loss is love.

His book clarifies what I know to be true: that when we fall into the hole of loss, we find ourselves in a…

This collection of essays feels so intimate in the author’s heart yet universal in all of ours. It’s a collection of essays that explore connection and meaning in our lives as a path to Joy.

It’s exactly why I describe Joy as so different than happiness. Each exploration the author offers shows how Joy can spring from whatever is happening in our life, not from a cognitive evaluation of how it is going. He speaks of how Joy springs from our pain and sorrow, which I deeply believe.

They live so close to each other, and each essay invites us…

Gay’s collection of essays is so lovingly and delicately penned.

His writing is approachable, but poetic. Matter of fact but brimming with despair and hope in equal measure. Grief can be so all consuming, but Gay’s main thesis is that Joy is an act of resistance to a callous world and art creates meaning. A valuable lesson that I keep in my pocket and worry like stone when I start to forget.  

This collection of essays feels so intimate into the author’s heart, yet universal into all of ours.

It’s a collection of essays that explore connection and meaning in our lives as a path to Joy. It’s exactly why I describe Joy as so different than happiness. In each exploration the author offers shows how Joy can spring from whatever is happening in our life, not from a cognitive evaluation of how it is going.

He speaks of how Joy springs from our pain and sorrow which I deeply believe. They live so close to each other and each essay invites…

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