When Death Takes Something from You Give It Back

By Naja Marie Aidt, Denise Newman (translator),

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'Extraordinary. It is about death, but I can think of few books which have such life. It shows us what love is.' Max Porter, author of Grief is the Thing With Feathers and Lanny

'There is no one quite like Naja Marie Aidt' Valeria Luiselli

'Devastating, angry, challenging, fragmented and…

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1 author picked When Death Takes Something from You Give It Back as one of their favorite books. Why do they recommend it?

This book is a cold-water plunge: shocking, disorienting yet grounding, a reminder of the body and its limits.

In recounting the death of her son, Naja Marie Aidt explicitly invokes Didion (as well as Anne Carson, C.S. Lewis, and Nick Cave), wrestling with the inability of language to hold grief. She returns to the death scene again and again, like a stitch through the book.

Each refrain adds more context and pushes us further into the moment before digressing, ruminating, and exploding the narrative. The book is a lyric essay, written in fragments, because Aidt understands this, in the end,…

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