The best books for finding your voice

Why am I passionate about this?

I’m a musician with a singular mission: to discover and present the beauty I’m uniquely positioned for. You may not expect a concert pianist to co-write a song with a man he would never meet, much less write an illustrated storybook about it. But given how I’ve learned to use my voice, I didn’t hesitate to become a first-time author with an illustrated storybook. May these recommendations help you find your voice as well.


I wrote...

Honey, If It Wasn't for You

By Barron Ryan, Cali Ward (illustrator),

Book cover of Honey, If It Wasn't for You

What is my book about?

This is the true story of a song. Songwriter Don Feagin wrote the words; composer Barron Ryan wrote the music. But this wasn’t your average collaboration: Don died in 1981—six years before Barron was even born. Cystic fibrosis took him from this world too soon. When Don died, his wife Linda thought she had heard all the songs he would ever write… until a chance encounter paved a path to bring his lyrics and legacy back to life.

Honey, If It Wasn’t For You is a love song, written for a wife, that a husband could no longer sing. It’s also a poignant tale of love and loss that shares the power of music to connect us with the ones we cherish—even after they’re gone.

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The books I picked & why

Book cover of For the Life of the World

Barron Ryan Why did I love this book?

‘What good is your voice, and what’s the use in finding it?’ Those are tough questions for anyone to answer, but especially for an artist. At first, I just loved making music and saw that others did too, but couldn’t give a compelling reason why it was worthwhile. For the Life of the World finally equipped me to articulate that reason.

“Beauty is never ‘necessary,’ ‘functional,’ or ‘useful,’” Fr Schmemann writes. “And when, expecting someone whom we love, we put a beautiful tablecloth on the table and decorate it with candles and flowers, we do all this not out of necessity, but out of love.”

Your voice exists to beautify the world—to show those who hear it that someone cares for them. I can scarcely think of anything more worthwhile.

By Alexander Schmemann,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked For the Life of the World as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

In For the Life of the World Alexander Schmemann suggests an approach to the world and life within it, which stems from the liturgical experience of the Orthodox Church. He understands issues such as secularism and Christian culture from the perspective of the unbroken experience of the Church, as revealed and communicated in her worship, in her liturgy the sacrament of the world, the sacrament of the Kingdom. Of what life do we speak, what life do we preach, proclaim, and announce when, as Christians, we confess that Christ died for the life of the world? In For the Life…


Book cover of The Halo Effect... and the Eight Other Business Delusions That Deceive Managers

Barron Ryan Why did I love this book?

Finding your voice is hard, so you might start—as I did—by learning what worked for other, more successful people. If it was good for them, it will be good for you, right?

Not so fast. The Halo Effect shows that the stories we read, hear, and even tell ourselves are all skewed by one thing: the outcome. If a company is profitable, its leadership is inspired. If not, they’re fools.

Though written for a business audience, this book helped me not to be distracted or discouraged by other people’s journeys, but to diligently focus on my own.

By Phil Rosenzweig,

Why should I read it?

5 authors picked The Halo Effect... and the Eight Other Business Delusions That Deceive Managers as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Why do some companies prosper while others fail? Despite great amounts of research, many of the studies that claim to pin down the secret of success are based in pseudoscience. The Halo Effect is the outcome of that pseudoscience, a myth that Philip Rosenzweig masterfully debunks in THE HALO EFFECT. The Halo Effect describes the tendency of experts to point to the high financial performance of a successful company and then spread its golden glow to all of the company's attributes - clear strategy, strong values, and brilliant leadership. But in fact, as Rosenzweig clearly illustrates, the experts are not…


Book cover of Practice Perfect: 42 Rules for Getting Better at Getting Better

Barron Ryan Why did I love this book?

No one’s voice is fully formed from the beginning. It takes work to refine it, and that’s where this book is invaluable.

Even though I had practiced piano for more than 20 years when I read Practice Perfect, I still found helpful insights for improving. My favorite rule is number 31: normalize error. “Failure is normal and not the indicator of a lack of skill.”

This is an excellent book for anyone who wants to get better at anything. That probably includes you.

By Doug Lemov, Erica Woolway, Katie Yezzi

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Practice Perfect as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Rules for developing talent with disciplined, deliberate, intelligent practice

We live in a competition loving culture. We love the performance, the big win, the ticking seconds of the clock as the game comes down to the wire. We watch games and cheer, sometimes to the point of obsession, but if we really wanted to see greatness-wanted to cheer for it, see it happen, understand what made it happen-we'd spend our time watching, obsessing on, and maybe even cheering the practices instead. This book puts practice on the front burner of all who seek to instill talent and achievement in others…


Book cover of Alchemy: The Dark Art and Curious Science of Creating Magic in Brands, Business, and Life

Barron Ryan Why did I love this book?

Even with the best practice approach, you’ll never be good at everything. Alchemy made me realize that not only is that acceptable, but it can be a good thing.

This alchemy isn’t about turning physical materials into gold, but about making the best out of your circumstances. My favorite example is Avis Rent A Car’s old slogan: “When you’re only No. 2, you try harder.” If you learn how to set expectations, almost anything can become a strength.

By Rory Sutherland,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Alchemy as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

HOW DOES MAGIC HAPPEN?The Ogilvy advertising legend—“one of the leading minds in the world of branding” (NPR)—explores the art and science of conjuring irresistible products and ideas.

"Sutherland, the legendary Vice Chairman of Ogilvy, uses his decades of experience to dissect human spending behavior in an insanely entertaining way. Alchemy combines scientific research with hilarious stories and case studies of campaigns for AmEx, Microsoft and the like. This is a must-read." —Entrepreneur ("Best Books of the Year")

Why is Red Bull so popular, though everyone—everyone!—hates the taste? Humans are, in a word, irrational, basing decisions as much on subtle external…


Book cover of The Hobbit

Barron Ryan Why did I love this book?

Even once you’ve found your voice, using it is still a slog. You must ever adapt to new circumstances, people may not understand what you’re doing, and it can be humiliating to make a mistake. The Hobbit helps me visualize why the effort is still worth it.

Using your voice parallels this heroic adventure. Like its protagonist, you’re embarking on a journey to discover gold (although again, yours is figurative). It’s a trail fraught with peril and uncertainty, but if you’re successful, you’ll enrich both your community and yourself.

“There are no safe paths in this part of the world. Remember you are over the Edge of the Wild now, and in for all sorts of fun wherever you go.” May this story give you courage on your quest.

By J.R.R. Tolkien,

Why should I read it?

42 authors picked The Hobbit as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Special collector's film tie-in hardback of the best-selling classic, featuring the complete story with a sumptuous cover design inspired by THE HOBBIT: AN UNEXPECTED JOURNEY and brand new reproductions of all the drawings and maps by J.R.R. Tolkien.

Bilbo Baggins is a hobbit who enjoys a comfortable, unambitious life, rarely travelling further than the pantry of his hobbit-hole in Bag End.

But his contentment is disturbed when the wizard, Gandalf, and a company of thirteen dwarves arrive on his doorstep one day to whisk him away on an unexpected journey 'there and back again'. They have a plot to raid…


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By Michael Bungay Stanier,

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked The Coaching Habit as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

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