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The Refuge: My Journey to the Safe House for Battered Women Paperback – April 24, 2014
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- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherSimon & Schuster UK
- Publication dateApril 24, 2014
- Dimensions5.12 x 0.79 x 7.8 inches
- ISBN-101471129489
- ISBN-13978-1471129483
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- Publisher : Simon & Schuster UK; Paperback Original edition (April 24, 2014)
- Language : English
- ISBN-10 : 1471129489
- ISBN-13 : 978-1471129483
- Item Weight : 8.4 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.12 x 0.79 x 7.8 inches
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Jenny's book covers so many sad topics, mental illness, runaways, prostitution, homelessness, Mixed race marriage, poverty and domestic violence. After getting into an abusive relationship Jenny manages to escape with her two daughters to a refuge for battered women in Chiswick, run by Erin Pizzey. The strength of these women is incredible and Erin has made a promise to never turn a battered away. The book describes Jenny's time at the refuge and beyond. The book mentioned two documentaries that were filmed in the refuge, "Scream quietly or the neighbours will here" and "Sanctuary" which was filmed in 1991 for Channel 4. The former was filmed with the same title as Erin Pizzey's book written a couple of years prior to the documentary. I would love to see this book available on Kindle and I'm also now in search online of any clips of the Sanctuary documentary. Erin Pizzey sounds an amazing woman with the strength to fight for what she believed in no matter what the personal cost.
Jenny's style of writing makes this a very easy read despite the harrowing subject matter. She is excellent at creating imagery of what it was like to live in Hackney, London in the late 60's early 70's and the racism that many new immigrants from the West Indies faced from the locals and the police. There are brighter moment where she describes the atmosphere at the Shabeens, the Caribbean food that she comes to love and the smells and sounds of the local markets. As well as living in the same district as the notorious Kray twins.
Later in life Jenny becomes a foster carer something which she is well equipped for with her past experiences. An excellent read, tragic yet inspiring in equal measure.
Jenny is an inspiration to women who may still now be trapped in a relentless horrifying domestic abuse situation. I won’t give any spoilers in case you haven’t read the book but to say she was a pioneer will not be an understatement.
The only thing I wanted to question was (I appreciate this was in the early 1970's) but was violence acceptable in those days? I mean if a person in the street had hit another person would they have been arrested for assault etc.? If it was a crime to hit people in those days then I can’t understand why the police were reluctant to prosecute? Jenny said she visited hospital on occasions surely they knew what had happened to her why wasn’t it logged as a crime?
I am so glad that life has become less barbaric, and I am glad that Jenny has managed to continue her life as a great mother and become a foster carer.
Unfortunately most of Erin Pizzey books can only be bought second hand as they are no longer in print but I managed to track down a second hand copy of 'Scream Quietly or the neighbours will hear' on Amazon and I went on to buy 'Prone to violence' by Erin Pizzey (again second hand) and I last bought 'This Way to the Revolution: A Memoir' an autobiography by Erin Pizzey which thankfully is still in print! Amazon suggested I buy 'The Refuge' by Jenny Smith when I purchased 'This Way to the Revolution', which I duly did.
The first half of the book is essentially an autobiography detailing the author's life with the second half focusing on her time in the refuge and beyond. Jenny comes from a Northern working class background, the daughter of a miner, and she describes how living with her mother's Schizophrenia drove her to run away from home at an early age to London.
For someone of my age, it gives you a fascinating insight into what life was like before the pioneering work done by Erin Pizzey and others. Victims of Domestic Violence or battered wives as they were then known would often be classed by Local Authorities as "intentionally homeless" for escaping abusive partners and they often received little sympathy or help from people they turned to such as doctors and clergymen. There are some appalling accounts in the book of people just turning a complete blind eye to the violence.
If you have already read books by Erin Pizzey, Jenny Smith' book gives you a different perspective as you learn the life events of someone which led them to the Refuge and it details her first hand experiences of it. If you haven't read any books by Erin Pizzey and you enjoy reading 'The Refuge' then I strongly recommend reading them as they are a fascinating historical account of a very important issue which remains with us today.
Finally I would like to thank Jenny for sharing her story as it is an important one. As someone said to her in the book "You have so much to give, Jenny" and this book gives an illuminating account of a very complex problem.