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We All Want Impossible Things: A Novel Hardcover – November 8, 2022

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“Catherine Newman sees the heartbreak and comedy of life with wisdom and unflinching compassion. The way she finds the extraordinary in the everyday is nothing short of poetry. She’s a writer’s writer—and a human’s human.”—New York Times bestselling author Katherine Center

“A riotously funny and fiercely loyal love letter to female friendship. The story of Edi and Ash proves that a best friend is a gift from the gods. Newman turns her prodigious talents toward finding joy even in the friendship’s final days. I laughed while crying, and was left revived. Newman is a comic masterhand and a dazzling philosopher of the day-to-day.”—Amity Gaige, author of Sea Wife

“The funniest, most joyful book about dying—and living—that I have ever read.”—KJ Dell'Antonia, author of the New York Times bestselling The Chicken Sisters

For lovers of Meg Wolitzer, Maria Semple, and Jenny Offill comes this raucous, poignant celebration of life, love, and friendship at its imperfect and radiant best. 

Edith and Ashley have been best friends for over forty-two years. They’ve shared the mundane and the momentous together: trick or treating and binge drinking; Gilligan’s Island reruns and REM concerts; hickeys and heartbreak; surprise Scottish wakes; marriages, infertility, and children. As Ash says, “Edi’s memory is like the back-up hard drive for mine.” 

But now the unthinkable has happened. Edi is dying of ovarian cancer and spending her last days at a hospice near Ash, who stumbles into heartbreak surrounded by her daughters, ex(ish) husband, dear friends, a poorly chosen lover (or two), and a rotating cast of beautifully, fleetingly human hospice characters.

As The Fiddler on the Roof soundtrack blasts all day long from the room next door, Edi and Ash reminisce, hold on, and try to let go. Meanwhile, Ash struggles with being an imperfect friend, wife, and parent—with life, in other words, distilled to its heartbreaking, joyful, and comedic essence.

For anyone who’s ever lost a friend or had one. Get ready to laugh through your tears.

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"Tragically funny, with moments of clarity and wisdom, Newman writes loss and laughter in equally brilliant amounts." — Bonnie Garmus, New York Times bestselling author of Lessons in Chemistry

“Excruciatingly heartbreaking, but I laughed out loud on almost every page. And I am not an easy laughter. Newman’s voice is hilarious and warm; her characters feel like old friend . . . a winning novel.” — Julie Klam, New York Times Book Review

"Catherine Newman's book We All Want Impossible Things is hilarious and heartbreaking and I die for her." — Samantha Irby, New York Times bestselling author of Quietly Hostile

“This is an absolute heartbreaker of a novel. Catherine Newman’s book, through deceptively simple language and everyday moments experienced during a friend’s hospice death — funny, sad, regretful, hopeful — is a celebration of life. For anyone who has prepared a hole in their heart for loss, We All Want Impossible Things is a reminder that, in time, that hollowed hallowed space is also there for when the light and love from grief pour back in.” — Laura Zigman, author of Separation Anxiety

“A novel set in a hospice has no right to be as hilarious, charming, and hopeful as We All Want Impossible Things. With Nora Ephron-style lightness, Catherine Newman has constructed a truly singular tale of love and friendship in the twenty-first century. I loved it.” — Joanna Rakoff, author of My Salinger Year

“A warm and remarkably funny book about death and caregiving that will make readers laugh through their tears.” — Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

“Devastatingly humorous and humorously devastating, We All Want Impossible Things is an unbelievably brilliant and funny book about friendship, family, food, sex, and death. Catherine Newman serves up a masterclass in narrative – you’ll stay up late devouring every word.” — Katherine Heiny, author of Early Morning Riser and Standard Deviation

"In author Catherine Newman's expert hands, We All Want Impossible Things is an extraordinary ode to friendship–warm, sometimes outrageously funny, and as real as it gets. It celebrates the gift of long-term bonds without shying away from the pain of losing someone you can't imagine life without." — Real Simple

"Pulses with life . . . . full of moments both mundane and painful, hilarious and heartbreaking.” — BookPage (starred review)

"Gorgeous, tender, and unexpectedly funny. I read the entirety of Edi and Ash's story with my hand clasped over my heart." — Kate Baer, #1 New York Times bestselling author of What Kind of Woman and I Hope This Finds You Well

“Fearless, open-hearted, funny, and provocative.” — Lit Hub

“Newman packs a gut punch, bringing humor and wit to a duo's final days together in We All Want Impossible Things.” — PopSugar

"Compulsively readable and tenderly hilarious." — Ploughshares

"Catherine Newman sees the heartbreak and comedy of life with wisdom and unflinching compassion. The way she finds the extraordinary in the everyday is nothing short of poetry. She’s a writer’s writer—and a human’s human." — Katherine Center, New York Times bestselling author of The Bodyguard

"We All Want Impossible Things is a riotously funny and fiercely loyal love letter to female friendship. The story of Edi and Ash proves that a best friend is a gift from the gods. Newman turns her prodigious talents toward finding joy even in the friendship’s final days. I laughed while crying, and was left revived. Newman is a comic masterhand and a dazzling philosopher of the day-to-day." — Amity Gaige, author of Sea Wife

“Genuinely heartbreaking and hilarious is a tough combination to pull off, but Newman does it in her first novel for adults . . . . Tears mix with laughter in everyday moments, showing the power of female friendship.” — Washington Post

“The funniest, most joyful book about dying—and living—that I have ever read.”   — KJ Dell’Antonia, author of The Chicken Sisters

“The poignant and personal story of the decades-long friendship of Edith and Ashley takes place in a hospice ward, where Edi is dying of ovarian cancer. Sound sad? Heartbreaking? It is. But it’s also heartwarming and life affirming—and yes, hilarious.” — Publishers Weekly

"How did Catherine Newman write a book about dying that is so luminously alive? Earthy, funny, and terrifyingly honest—this is a book with heart and guts and all the other goopy gravy we need to stay among the living. A radical delight." — Rufi Thorpe, PEN/ Faulkner Finalist for The Knockout Queen

"I adored this book. There is so much love, funniness, honesty, courage, mess, bounce, and surprise in this book, and not a shred of it is mawkish. Loss might be the central theme–or rather the process of losing your dearest friend–but it is the most robust and glorious affirmation of life. Pure genius and an utter joy to read." — Rachel Joyce, bestselling author of The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry

“Devastatingly hilarious and poignantly poetic story about the intimacy of female bonds.” — E! News

“[Newman] brings Ash to life through a voice that is both hilarious and filled with crushing sadness, but the ultimate message is that of hope. A crossover readalike for fans of death memoirs such as those by Paul Kalanithi and Nora McInerny.” — Booklist

"Breezy New York Nora-Ephron-style wit meets hospice memoir to create something PROFOUNDLY beautiful. Grief, love, cake—it's ALL there." — Marian Keyes, international bestselling author of Rachel's Holiday

Affirming, entertaining, and unaccountably, wonderfully funny” — Romper

"Can NOT put this down. Read for two-plus hours straight last night. Read while standing in line today. Read any free minutes. So, so, so good . . . Smart women friendship fiction at its best." — Zibby Owens

“Here is the thing about this book. It is excruciatingly heartbreaking, but I laughed out loud on almost every page. And I am not an easy laugher. Newman’s voice is hilarious and warm; her characters feel like old friends . . . . a winning novel.” — New York Times

"Here and throughout, Newman does a wonderful job channeling Ash’s sense of impending loss . . . . Newman breathes ample life into this exquisite story of death and dying." — Publishers Weekly

"This is one of my new favorite books—a smart friendship story that made me laugh and cry. Truly." — Zibby Owens, GMA.com

"Newman’s affecting novel takes place in hospice, yet it’s anything but bleak . . . . Don't miss it." — People Magazine

“Yes, we all know hospice is sad, but it’s also absurd, tedious and often achingly boring . . . . This story of friendship, family dynamics and even ill-timed lovers is also a reckoning with how life is about holding one another up through good times and bad— which are often one and the same. It’s a meditation on how to love through loss that will help make whatever you’re dealing with feel a little bit lighter.” — Good Housekeeping

"There's no one quite like Catherine Newman, who can absolutely tear your heart out while reminding you how much there is to laugh about. This book, a novelization about taking case of her dying friend, is quintessential Catherine." — Jenny Rosenstrach, author of The Weekday Vegetarians

"Ash’s voice is unbearably compelling . . . [The characters] are all original, fully imagined human beings, likable in different ways." — New York Journal of Books

“Not advised for reading in public, unless you enjoy crying around strangers.” — New York Post

"Wonderful." — Cup of Jo

"[A] hug of a book . . . . a humorous, touching rumination on life, death, and friendship.” — Apartment Therapy

"A tender, raucous, heart-wrenching, laugh-out-loud, thoughtful and honest exploration of friendship, life and death." — BookReporter

“…a fierce ode to female friendship and an exploration of the messiness of life, when grief and laughter can often be intertwined . . . . Newman has a light touch and uses humor to navigate the pain and raw emotion that’s at the center of the novel.” — Daily Hampshire Gazette

“I never thought any book would have me weeping more than A Little Life, but Catherine Newman’s We All Want Impossible Things broke that record . . . . Pairs well with Kathryn Schulz’s Lost & Found and/or Janine Kwoh’s Welcome to the Grief Club.”
Southern Bookseller Review

"Through Ash’s honest thoughts, her time with Edi, her conversations with her daughters, and her relationships with her lovers, Catherine Newman has written a novel that perfectly captures what it’s like to experience love and loss." — The Everygirl

About the Author

Catherine Newman has written numerous columns, articles, and canned-bean recipes for magazines and newspapers, and her essays have been widely anthologized. She is the author of the novel We All Want Impossible Things; the memoirs Waiting for Birdy and Catastrophic Happiness; the middle-grade novel One Mixed-Up Night; and the bestselling kids’ life-skills books How to Be a Person and What Can I Say? She lives in Amherst, Massachusetts.

Product details

  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Harper; First Edition (November 8, 2022)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 224 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0063230895
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0063230897
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 10.6 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.81 x 8.25 inches
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Catherine Newman is the author of the kids' how-to books How to Be a Person and What Can I Say?, the memoirs Catastrophic Happiness and Waiting for Birdy, the middle-grade novel One Mixed-Up Night, and the grown-up novels We All Want Impossible Things (Harper 2022) and Sandwich (Harper 2024). She edits the non-profit kids' cooking magazine ChopChop and is a regular contributor to the New York Times, O, The Oprah Magazine, Cup of Jo, and many other publications. She lives in Amherst, Massachusetts, with her family.

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We All Want Impossible Things: this slim book with the most perfect cover has both drawn me to it, and honestly, scared me a little since its release. Now available in paperback, and just after the one year mark of Dad passing away, the feelings drawing me in won, and they were the ones I should have listened to all along.Ash and Edi are lifelong best friends, and Edi has terminal ovarian cancer. The story begins with Edi and her family, including Ash, deciding her next steps in care when there are no more treatment options, and hospice is the recommended next step. What commences feels like a few short weeks of Ash navigating caring for her dearest friend in the most meaningful of ways while also mourning the eventual loss of her, bit by bit.I’ll admit I was scared of the sadness in this book. Having been the main caretaker for Dad, I was worried it would be too hard at times, but then I hadn’t met the narrator, Ash, and Catherine Newman’s sense of humor. I was in careful hands, the story was tenderly, yet wittily, narrated by Ash, and while I cried a couple times near the end of the story, I was brought right back in by the hope and goodness of everyone who surrounded Edi in her last days.I learned before I read that Catherine Newman experienced a similar loss. While this is fiction, the grain of truth, the authenticity, never wanes, and it feels like a deeply personal memoir. We should all have a friend like Edi. We should all have one like Ash. We should all continue to want Impossible Things. I loved this book. All the stars. I only wish I’d read it sooner.I received a gifted copy.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 19, 2024
Such a touching, heartwarming extremely funny book! I laughed and cried. Newman has a wonderful storytelling talent. A book for everyone. Especially for those of us who have loved someone in Hospice.
Reviewed in the United States on December 15, 2023
Pretty detailed. Just a great read all the way around the board. Love d the characters. I thought I was part of the story.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 30, 2024
An extraordinary human story that allows for grief and laughing in the same tasteful bite. Many thanks to the author and her team for presenting this book to humanity. This 70 year old human is very grateful for you.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 21, 2024
So quirky and sweet and wonderful. Literary therapy and stand-up comedy kind of mashed together in a lovely way. Read it.
Reviewed in the United States on April 26, 2024
Rounding up from 2.5. I wish this had been more about the relationship between the narrator and her dying friend…and maybe a little about what the dying friend wanted. But it was a lot of navel gazing on the narrator’s part. And she was fairly unlikeable for the first 3/4 of the book.
Reviewed in the United States on September 15, 2023
Book was hard to read as I have lost 2 friends to cancer this year. However the conversations that Ash has with her husband, daughters and friends are so real and with humor also.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 20, 2024
I loved all the characters and truly did laugh out loud in parts (even though I don’t trust reviews that say that). The long term friends that leave footprints on our soul are irreplaceable. Losing one must be one of the worst sorts of pain. Who else knows our story as well? I highly recommend this book.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 4, 2024
Touching, funny and real. I feel like I wish I were friends with this crazy cast of characters in real life. Lucky girls! The greater the joy, the greater the pain.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Beautifully written, have the tissues to hand!
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on May 6, 2024
Perfect record of true friendship, warts and all💖
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Reviewed in India on May 3, 2024
The book came in a pretty good condition except a few negligibly torn areas.
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louise
5.0 out of 5 stars heartbreaking, funny and clever
Reviewed in Australia on December 4, 2023
This book feels like a lived experience. It was challenging and engaging. The characters feel like real people ( that you want to meet) i laughed and cried and thought of the people I have loved , still love but aren’t here anymore.
Ana
4.0 out of 5 stars Real, uplifting and a bit inspirational too.
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on December 3, 2023
One of my favourite reads of the year. The writing was unaffected, felt very real, the characters easy to get to know. From the author's acknowlegements it sounds as though much conversation was lifted from life. There was some suspension of disbelief required, for me anyway, regarding the intimate encounters between the main character and a selection of partners, but that was peripheral in a way and served a purpose. The main takeaway was the absolute importance of love and friendship and human connection. It's all we have. If I was able to fill a room with as many people as Edi near the end of my life, I would consider it well lived. The way the main character helped us get to know Edi, with Edi not taking part in much of the action, was skillfully done. It was poignant but not mawkish, when in another writer's hands it might have been. I really enjoyed the tone of this book.
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4.0 out of 5 stars heartbreakingly beautiful
Reviewed in Australia on June 16, 2023
A lovely honest gut wrenching story of true friendship. Beautiful words, real characters, and a deeply moving story about loss, friends, lovers and life