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The Anatomy of Peace, Fourth Edition: Resolving the Heart of Conflict Kindle Edition
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What if conflicts at home, at work, and in the world stem from the same root cause? What if we systematically misunderstand that cause? And what if, as a result, we unwittingly perpetuate the very problems we think we are trying to solve?
The Anatomy of Peace uses a fictional story of an Arab and a Jew—both of whom lost their fathers at the hands of the other's cousins—to powerfully show readers the way to transform conflict. We learn how they come together, how they help parents and children come together, and how we too can find our way out of the personal, professional, and social conflicts that weigh us down.
The fourth edition includes revisions and new materials and resources that increase its relevance and usefulness at a time of deeply entrenched divisions throughout society. Additionally, it includes new detailed discussions of the pattern of dehumanization that lies at the heart of today's most pressing struggles with prejudice and discrimination—challenges that cannot be solved until the origins of bias and discrimination are properly understood and addressed. The new edition is a unique and vital resource for combatting racism and prejudice in their many manifestations.
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherBerrett-Koehler Publishers
- Publication dateFebruary 8, 2022
- File size4746 KB
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Most people and organizations tackle common problems—disengagement, conflict, poor communication, and so on—by trying to change behavior. The problem is that a behavioral focus alone will not solve these problems. Why? Because they are driven by mindset. Through training, coaching, consulting, and a suite of implementation tools, Arbinger helps individuals, teams, and organizations achieve breakthrough results by shifting from the default self-focus of an inward mindset to the impact-focus of an outward mindset. Programs and methodology are based on four decades of research in the psychology of human behavior and experience working with organizations worldwide in the corporate, healthcare, education, government, public safety, and nonprofit sectors.
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Titles by The Arbinger Institute | This fourth edition of an international bestseller—over 3 million copies sold worldwide and translated into 33 languages—details how its powerful insights on motivation, conflict, and collaboration can benefit organizations as well as individuals. | The Arbinger Institute explores how we misunderstand the causes of our conflicts and shows us the paths to achieving true peace within ourselves, in our relationships, and even between nations. | The Outward Mindset helps individuals and organizations shift to a new mindset that will improve performance, spark collaboration, accelerate innovation, and make your life and the lives of everyone around you better. |
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—Marion Blumenthal Lazan, holocaust survivor and bestselling author
“I loved Leadership and Self-Deception, and The Anatomy of Peace takes it to the next level, personally and professionally.”
—Adel Al-Saleh, President, IMS Health Europe, Middle East and Africa
“The most powerful tool I've seen for finding real, lasting peace—in families, organizations, communities, and nations.”
—Pamela Richarde, Past President, International Coach Federation
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"After years of applying these ideas with youth and their parents, I can say that this is powerful medicine for the soul. These ideas change hearts, heal deep wounds, and bring parents and children together." Mike Merchant, President and Chief Executive Officer, Anasazi Foundation
"A stunning work of wisdom and insight . Everyone, from neighbors to the heads of nations, ought to read and live the teachings of this book." Kent H. Murdock, President and CEO, O.C. Tanner
"Profound in depth, yet simple in message an astounding work of immense impact, both personally and professionally. This is the next major lever in terms of how organizations improve performance." Nick Jessett, Programme Manager, Rolls Royce
"This is a masterful and important work that shows how we blame others for problems we ourselves have created. It gently leads the reader to take a hard look in the mirror." Scott Barton, Sr. VP, Capital One
"To adopt the essence of this book is the true roadmap for peace." Eytan Bentsur, Former Director General, Israel Ministry of Foreign Affairs
From the Back Cover
"In this day of whirlwind confusion and intense disconnection, The Anatomy of Peace is a divine prescription. More than just a book to read or an idea to consider, it is a life raft for the countless many who are suffering in silence and drowning in fear." Iyanla Vanzant, Author, Life Coach, Founder, Inner Visions Institute For Spiritual Development
"Rarely have I read anything that held my attention the way this book did. To find that kind of reading experience in the context of a book that covers such disparate topics as parenting, managing employees, Middle East peace, and self-actualization is truly astonishing." Jo Ellen Green Kaiser, Senior Editor, Tikkun magazine
"I couldn't put this book down. It is an enthralling story of peacemaking, showing principles that apply both in the family and on the world stage. Told with compassion and humor, the practical wisdom of this book has profound implications for all who are struggling and seemingly paralyzed in insoluble conflicts." The Reverend Victor de Waal, former Dean of Canterbury Cathedral, England
"Phenomenal compelling vivid poignant. This is a book that every manager, teacher, advisor, and parent should read and apply." Steven Wheelwright, Senior Associate Dean, Harvard Business School
"Amazingly powerful! In the reading alone, there is transformation. I know of no tool or way of thinking that contributes so masterfully to real, lasting peace in families, organizations, communities, and nations. The Anatomy of Peace is a gift to the world." Pamela Richarde, founding member of Coach U, Inc., President, International Coach Federation 2006
"I love this book. Having read it, the circumstances I encounter every day seem different to me whether in sports, business, or family life, the ideas apply to every facet of life. I can t wait to share this book and its concepts with others." Danny Ainge, General Manager, the Boston Celtics
"Having been intensely involved in peacemaking, I can honestly say that this is a significant and important book that lays out innovative strategies for building sustainable peace." Uri Savir, President, The Peres Center for Peace, Tel-Aviv, and former Director General, Israel Ministry of Foreign Affairs
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- ASIN : B09DDJWC4Q
- Publisher : Berrett-Koehler Publishers; 4th edition (February 8, 2022)
- Publication date : February 8, 2022
- Language : English
- File size : 4746 KB
- Text-to-Speech : Enabled
- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
- X-Ray : Enabled
- Word Wise : Enabled
- Print length : 288 pages
- Page numbers source ISBN : 1626564310
- Best Sellers Rank: #99,175 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
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HISTORY
In the 1970s, a team of scholars led by philosopher C. Terry Warner embarked on an exploration into a core problem at the heart of the human sciences—the “problem of self-deception.” The research explored how we end up creating and sustaining problems we don’t know we are causing, and how and why people resist helpful solutions.
A DISCOVERY
Initially, all attempts to understand the phenomenon of self-deception failed, just as all attempts had for over 100 years. After years of work, however, the research team discovered a solution no one expected. They discovered the clear and surprising way that people begin to evade responsibility without thinking that they are doing so, and therefore end up blaming others or circumstances they, themselves, are helping to create. More importantly, they discovered how this could be corrected.
EARLY APPLICATION
Following this scholarly discovery, Arbinger’s founding members began teaching the principles in academic circles and within the university environment. This soon led to demand from individuals and families and then to requests for organizational applications. As more and more people and organizations experienced the profound changes that were enabled by Arbinger’s work, Arbinger evolved into a full-service consultancy that helps individuals and organizations solve the problems they have never been able to solve.
ARBINGER TODAY
Arbinger was founded in 1979. Since then, Arbinger has worked with thousands of individuals and organizations and helped them to transform their effectiveness and performance.
Early on, Arbinger’s growth was fueled solely by clients who spread the word about Arbinger’s impact. Arbinger’s public profile was then dramatically increased by the global success of its first book, Leadership & Self Deception, which was published in 2000. The book quickly became a word-of-mouth bestseller. It is now available in 27 languages and has sold over a million copies.
Arbinger’s second international bestseller, The Anatomy of Peace, was published in 2006. Available in 14 languages and having sold nearly 500,000 copies to date, The Anatomy of Peace demonstrates the power of Arbinger’s work in resolving conflict.
Arbinger is now recognized as a world-leader in improving organizational culture and conflict resolution. Arbinger’s clients range from individuals who are seeking help in their lives to many of the largest companies and governmental institutions in the world.
For more information, please visit www.arbinger.com
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Customers find the book engaging and well-written. They appreciate the insightful content and unique message. Readers describe it as a simple, easy read that provides practical tools for creating peace. The narrative is described as compelling and elegant. Opinions differ on the pacing - some find it quick and fast, while others feel it's slow to get into.
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Customers find the book engaging and worthwhile. They say it's an insightful resource that changes their lives. While some find the writing style not suitable, most consider it a valuable resource and recommend it to others.
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Customers find the book insightful and helpful. They say the concepts are useful and the message is unique. The book opens their perspective on relationships with others.
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"This was well written and had good insights of how we can deal with challenges in our families in a way that brings peace to both sides. Thank you!" Read more
"...It's written in a story way which makes it great for remembering and wanting to continue reading it. I learned a lot...." Read more
Customers find the book easy to read and understand. They appreciate the clear concepts and relatable stories. The writing style is simple yet effective.
"This was well written and had good insights of how we can deal with challenges in our families in a way that brings peace to both sides. Thank you!" Read more
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Customers find the book helpful. It explains how to create peace within yourself and with friends and family. The book provides tools to help deal with conflict in personal life. While the writing is not the best, it's an easy read and makes sense.
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- Reviewed in the United States on October 6, 2024To get the full effect, the three books must be read, in no particular order. I began with Leadership and Self Deception, which intrigued me so much I immediately bought Anatomy of Peace and Outward Mindset. These books expose our inner motives, which is painful, but as the book is titled, it leads the reader to real peace. I've suggested this book to friends of mine: Sherrie was struggling to cope with her daughter's eating disorder which was spiraling out of control. She read it in 2 days and she's able to view the entire situation with a new vision and serenity.
I began reading Leadership and Self Deception with a group of business partners looking to maximize ourselves to better serve others. We do this on a monthly basis and all the books we choose are profoundly life changing. Of all the books we've read in the past few years, this is number 2 (Insidious is number 1) and I refer back to the lessons regularly.
- Reviewed in the United States on October 17, 2022Over the past 15 years, I have read and revisited the principle of self-deception taught in Anatomy of Peace numerous times. I may be overstating its importance, but this may be the most valuable idea I learned in life so far. It comes up every day, in every relationship, and it is deceptively powerful and subtle. But becoming aware of my self-deception and how to address it has opened the door to tremendous freedom and personal growth. The lesson of self-deception gave new perspective to the oft repeated advice, "Love thy neighbor as thyself" and "Do unto others as you'd have done to you."
This has been an extremely valuable book in my family. It has helped me invite tremendously valuable improvements in my marriage, my relationships with my children, my coworkers, and everyone else I cross paths with as I go about life. I have lost my interest in making people change. I want to meet them where they're at in life. I want to understand their perspective. I want to help them, where I can, to make their own life better. I can't do it for them and I don't want to. Life is a wonderful experience. I would rather help people in their own efforts to realize their full potential, as opposed to fussing and fretting because other people aren't "doing it right". Why am I the right one and they are wrong? I have not only learned that we are smarter than I, but I welcome other's perspective and insights, which help me to see more clearly than I can on my own.
- Reviewed in the United States on August 2, 2024This was well written and had good insights of how we can deal with challenges in our families in a way that brings peace to both sides. Thank you!
- Reviewed in the United States on August 30, 2024Haven't finished reading it
- Reviewed in the United States on January 2, 2024Great great book - gave me so much insight into all facets of my life. It's written in a story way which makes it great for remembering and wanting to continue reading it. I learned a lot. Highly recommend this book - it will enlighten you and the world around you. My husband ended up reading it too and loves it as well.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 13, 2025I had a friend whose therapist recommended this book to get past some family pain and heartache. Since I am going through some similar situations to her, she told me to get the book and it would really help me.
- Reviewed in the United States on August 7, 2017This is one of the most important books I have ever read. It's topics and message is so unique to the other books that would be in the same category.
Self deception is an important lesson for every human being to learn of they want to vastly improve themselves as an individual.
Think you are a victim in life? That bad things always happen to you??? Well you might find some answers and more importantly some freedom from the parts of life that can take such a heavy toll.
When you learn to look within to them look without you find that most the suffering and conflict in your life is due to having a heart at war. The inner conflict that tells you people should behave how you want them to. That another person exists to serve your needs first and then maybe there own.
When you have a conflict with another person they are a burden. They are an obstacle that needs to be removed.
That type of objectification leads to pain and suffering on a personal level. It is possible to see a person as a person and still have difficult circumstances in life.
I hope you read this book. From one person to another this would be one of the most important books you read. If you are struggling and work or home or like me both sometimes I think this book could hold some resolutions for you.
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Eduardo Morales-GonzalezReviewed in Mexico on November 13, 2022
5.0 out of 5 stars Muy interesante e ilustrativo
De lo mejor que he meido
- Sharon MoxeyReviewed in the United Kingdom on March 28, 2022
5.0 out of 5 stars Great for understand yourself
This is my go to book when I am feeling or experiencing conflict or difficult situations. It has helped me understand myself and how I work with others and fins conflict resolution when dealing with teams. it has a really good way to help me understand myself and the way I interact with decisions and difficult situations.
- Nitin MahajanReviewed in India on December 18, 2020
5.0 out of 5 stars Life Changing
Very well written and hard hitting. This type of books deepen the understanding of ourselves and people in general. It talks about the core of conflict. It talks about why do the conflicts happen in first place. So many books talk about thinking good about people who have hurt you. This books shows why and how. It has changed me, on level how I can have my heart at peace even during worst conflicts. If you feel you are at conflict very often, than give this book a try.
- kristenReviewed in Canada on October 21, 2017
5.0 out of 5 stars It's such a beautifully written book and easy to read/follow
I had to read any book about conflict for class... I had just over a week to get the whole thing read and reviewed on paper and I did not think I could do it.... the course has been so dry... but when I started this book (that I found randomly and purchased with fingers crossed) I couldn't put it down !! It's such a beautifully written book and easy to read/follow. This just made my assignment incredibly worth it. I'm lucky to have come across this content. Thank you!!! #grateful <3
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lauReviewed in France on September 24, 2018
1.0 out of 5 stars Beaucoup de mots !
J'ai lu ce livre pour découvrir de nouvelles approches pour mon métier de coach. Le sujet aurait pu être, à mon avis, traité en quelques pages, là où il m'a semblé inutilement dilué et complexifié.