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The Sacred Search: What if It's Not about Who You Marry, but Why? Kindle Edition

by Gary Thomas (Author) Format: Kindle Edition
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Bestselling author Gary Thomas transforms the way you look at romantic relationships. His unique perspective on dating will prepare you for a satisfying, spiritually enriching marriage.
 
In the revised edition of his hit book The Sacred Search,  Gary Thomas helps single people of all ages make wise marital choices by rethinking what basis those choices should be made on.
 
You will be encouraged to think beyond finding your “soul mate” and instead adopt a more biblical search for a “sole mate”—someone who will walk with you on your spiritual journey.
 
Thomas asks, What if we focused on why we should get married more than on who to marry? What if being “in love” isn’t a good enough reason to get married? And most of all, what if God designed marriage to make us holy more than to make us happy?
 
The Sacred Search casts a vision for building a relationship around shared spiritual mission—and making marriage with eternity at its heart.
 
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"Gary Thomas looks at the heart of a subject that many consider him an expert on—successful marriage. Anyone who is dating, engaged, or hopes to be one day needs to read this book!" -- Ed Young, senior pastor of Fellowship Church

"Why should I get married? could be the most important questions Milennials are asking. Gary Thomas helps this generation navigate the why in a Christ-honoring way." -- Esther Fleece

"The Sacred Search will help those who desire marriage to pursue it in a manner that deepens their faith, honors God, and blesses their future spouse." -- Jim Daly, president of Focus on the Family

"Gary Thomas debunks the mythical search for a soul mate to help you choose a 'sole-mate'—someone who will lay down their life in faithful love. This biblically based book is for anyone who wants to be wise in their pursuit of a spouse." -- Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott

"Filled with questions to make you think and teaching that will bring 'aha' moments, this book is a must read for everyone considering marriage. I highly recommend it to you—I wish I'd had it when I was single!" -- Linda Dillow, bestselling author

"Our culture is obsessed with compatibility and chemistry. However, in relationship formation character always trumps chemistry. The Sacred Search is a gut check for anyone considering, delaying, or even pursuing marriage." -- Ted Cunningham, author

"Singles, pay attention. Gary knows marriage, and is eager to help those of us desiring marriage get there with confidence and grace." -- Lisa Anderson, Focus on the Family director of young adults and host

"Gary Thomas dismantles contemporary philosophies on love, sexuality, and marital union by offering strong arguments for why they have not been successful. His appeal to a kingdom-first perspective gives both hope and healing for a generation in desperate need of a fresh and Christ-centered understanding of God's plan for marriage. This book is a must-read before anyone says 'I do.'" -- Dr. Michelle Anthony, family ministries pastor at New Life Church and author

"Marriages are falling apart all around us and I believe Gary Thomas has just gone straight to the root. Gary just built a map to help you see through the emotion and infatuation to God's heart for dating and marriage." -- Jennie Allen

"Gary creates a compelling argument that shifts the believer's view of relationships, dating, and marriage to focus on something greater. I'm thankful Gary has created this resource." -- Joy Eggerichs

About the Author

Gary Thomas is writer-in-residence at Second Baptist Church in Houston, a frequent guest on Focus on the Family and FamilyLife Today radio, and a popular speaker around the world. His award-winning books have been translated into fifteen languages and have sold two million copies. Thomas and his wife have three children.
 

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B08HW789MR
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ David C Cook; Revised edition (April 1, 2021)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ April 1, 2021
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 2310 KB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
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  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 226 pages
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Gary Thomas is a bestselling author and international speaker whose ministry brings people closer to Christ and closer to others. He unites the study of Scripture, church history, and the Christian classics to foster spiritual growth and deeper relationships. Gary's unique message will help you:

* Embrace the unique way that you interact with God.

* Partner in the spiritual growth and character formation of your spouse.

* Build a closer, grace-based family.

* Enjoy God with a new sense of freedom and delight.

Find out more at: www.garythomas.com

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Madelyn
5.0 out of 5 stars This book is very good… I have listened to it almost into Sitting’s.
Reviewed in the United States on April 19, 2024
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 I listened to this book and also bought it in paperback form so that I could answer some of the questions and load it out to people… It’s such a good book if you’re in a single mess journey at the moment or trying to decide if someone’s going to be the right fit for you I highly encourage you to read this book. It’s well worth the time and investment… The way she tackles different subjects is tactful and extremely helpful…
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Ashleigh
5.0 out of 5 stars Gary Thomas was in His Bag
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My, my, my.
This book was almost FLAWLESS in the way it discussed singleness, dating (even though I’m not a fan of that word), and looking for a potential spouse.
Things I loved:
- Short chapters
- Practical examples
- Discussion questions that are both approachable & make you think
- Listening to the audio (Gary narrates it) alongside the Kindle version
If there were mentions of single people who want to get married but don’t want children and I didn’t have a bone to pick with a part in one of the chapters towards the end, this book would have been perfect.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A great and insightful book on the "why" of marriage
Reviewed in the United States on December 30, 2023
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This book presents a biblical and purpose driven view of marriage that highlights and emphasises the wisdom required to make the right and often tough choices that build the type of marriages God wants for us to have. The book is very practical and provides very accessible and often underestimated steps for getting Godly dating right. The book also confidently challenges some of the worldly perspectives that confuse single christians in their journey to marriage and helps in making the main the main thing. This book is a golden resource for any Christian single who is dating or entering the dating pool.
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Rlee
5.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful read
Reviewed in the United States on January 22, 2024
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Thoroughly enjoyed this book. I found the writing down to earth writing & the book filled with insightful truths. Highly recommend!
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D. H. WALLENSTEIN
4.0 out of 5 stars Informative, but a bit TMI
Reviewed in the United States on May 11, 2022
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The book is filled with great advice for seeking Christians. Still, it's filled with premarital advice that, in my opinion, is best reserved for private counseling. Biblical and Christ-centered as well.
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Tamia smith
5.0 out of 5 stars This book is great for not only Engaged couples but also Single people
Reviewed in the United States on February 5, 2024
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I really enjoyed it. I recommend it to any in a relationship or single. It has opened my eyes and helped me be more confident in my decision marrying my person. But like it said this book is great for single people who desire a relationship. It will help and guide you to finding a suitable person and avoid unnecessary heart break. This book does a great Job pointing out red flags to avoid and green flags to look for. Overall this was a great book!!!
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Knspk
5.0 out of 5 stars So much wisdom!
Reviewed in the United States on March 29, 2024
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Every unmarried person should read this. Absolute GOLD. I have our youth read it.
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Taylor Ward
5.0 out of 5 stars Will get you thinking
Reviewed in the United States on February 27, 2024
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I’m single & reading this book to freshen my memory on what a man of God should look like. I like this book a lot. Comes with questions at the end of each chapter. I highly recommend!
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Georgina Cox
5.0 out of 5 stars Thought Provoking
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on July 24, 2022
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A book to read over and over again and continuously question your head space! At any level of spiritual maturity and relationship. Something for anyone and everyone to take away who is pursuing a life with Christ at the centre.
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Paige Z.
5.0 out of 5 stars I’d read it again and again until…
Reviewed in Japan on June 23, 2022
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God brings me the one with whom I can do His Kingdom work together and grow together.
Super great book to read BEFORE starting dating. Highly recommend!
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