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Unnatural Selection: A Memoir of Adoption and Wilderness Paperback – May 2, 2021

4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars 26 ratings

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Adopted at birth, Andrea Ross grew up inhabiting two ecosystems: one was her tangible, adoptive family, the other her birth family, whose mysterious landscape was hidden from her. In this coming-of-age memoir, Ross narrates how in her early twenties, while working as a ranger in Grand Canyon National Park, she embarked on a journey to discover where she came from and, ultimately, who she was. After many missteps and dead ends, Ross uncovered her heartbreaking and inspiring origin story and began navigating the complicated turns of reuniting with her birth parents and their new families. Through backcountry travel in the American West, she also came to understand her place in the world, realizing that her true identity lay not in a choice between adopted or biological parents, but in an expansion of the concept of family.
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"Andrea Ross’s soul-stirring memoir takes readers on her quest to find her birth parents. . . . Ross writes with the keen observation of a naturalist, the wisdom of an outdoor guide, and the purity of a poet, blending the raw beauty and sacredness of nature with the prevailing human spirit. Unnatural Selection will remind you of the times you were lost and searching and the peace of finding something greater than you expected." -- Daina Olseen Collins ― Diamonds and Rocks

"With clarity, grace, and humor, Andrea Ross guides us through the terrain of her life. She is not new to guiding newcomers through the wilderness, and she does so expertly with engaging anecdotes of her life in the canyons and mountains of California, New Mexico, Arizona, Colorado, and along the icy road to Alaska. She weaves these with the poignant and powerful story of finding her birth parents, one that left me in tears. Read this for the stories of wild places and wild people and, in the end, the moving story of family." ―
David Gessner

“Ross has written a fascinating book, the subtitle of which is
A Memoir of Adoption and Wilderness.. It is a wonderfully told adventure of guiding others into the natural wonders of climbing mountains, descending into canyons, crossing deserts, and fording rivers. At the same time it is the weaving together the wilderness of adoption with its traumatic loss of the first mother, living with genetic strangers, the roadblocks in the way of being able to connect with biological relatives, and finally finding her birth parents and her roots. It is a journey of discovering the meaning of family, our relationship with all humanity, and with Mother Earth. Beautifully written. A must-read!” ― Nancy Verrier, author of 'The Primal Wound' and 'Coming Home to Self'

About the Author

Andrea Ross was once a park service ranger and wilderness guide and now teaches writing at University of California, Davis. Her work can be found in Ploughshares, Terrain, the Café Review, and on the Dirtbag Diaries Podcast. She lives in Davis, California with her husband and son.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ CavanKerry Press (May 2, 2021)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 296 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 193388083X
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1933880839
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 12.1 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6 x 0.8 x 9 inches
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Reviewed in the United States on April 16, 2024
If adoption has touched your life, please read this great book. It helped me understand how profoundly adoption has affected my husband’s interior emotional life. It’s also a great story about a woman’s search for belonging. It’s a quick enjoyable read.
Reviewed in the United States on March 21, 2024
I first heard Andrea speak at a conference in the spring of 2023 and was captivated by the synchronicities in our lives and knew I had to buy her book.

I found Unnatural Selection to be an accessible yet lyrical read. She deftly interweaves motifs of landscape, journey, and the perennial quest adoptees find and often lose themselves on, at least for a time. Indeed, adoption searches are not unlike wilderness trips - there are often many forks, surprises & talismans along the trail; and there is both the peril + the promise that the journey will be transformative.

By the end of her memoir, you will feel as though you, too, have crossed countless terrains alongside her.

Adoptees will find resonance on these pages, as I did, and curious readers will better understand what compels adoptees to travel to the ends of the earth and back again to piece together their origin story and birth family trees.
Reviewed in the United States on July 9, 2021
Being chosen and feeling connected are two different things.
Her writing investigates that in this memoir of an adult who learns about her self as a child from a closed adoption and the geography where her life unfolds.
Choosing paths in her life (literal and metaphorical) reveal the feeling of connectedness that happens when the real and symbolic paths intersect and create her sense of self over time. Most important is the palpable disorientation of trying to figure out where you are going if you don't know where you are from, and in some case the place you were told aren't accurate. An underlying awareness that she shares is the relationship of health and the limitations it places on access to wild places. My headline is solvitur ambulando, it is solved by walking, was true for her. She had long hours to meditate and contemplate her footsteps and their deliberateness. Unsaid but clear in contrast is that this ability to walk and access the wild places that were the forge or crucible for her sense of self were always at risk. Could her health and the timing of events in her life made her unable to enter that 'workshop of identity' been different? I think there is an uderlying sense of gratitude for the way things evolved (pun unintended) in her unnatural selection and her strength at seizing the opportunities she did. Very good read, pacing of annectdotes and sincerity of writing was a pleasure.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 25, 2022
This book is a perfect gift for any woman, as Andrea shares a journey of traveling in the world - whether shaped by an outdated bureaucracy of adoption or the casual sexism of wilderness guiding - to find herself and inner home.
After the first couple chapters, I just couldn't put it down and I immediately wanted to talk with a friend about it. This would be my top pick, hands down, for a book club. It calls for a leisurely discussion with friends.
Even if you are not familiar with stories of adoption or enjoy backpacking, the universal themes resonate through fascinating mini-stories of how the writer finds her career, her partner, her home, her family, and herself. There is so much here to savor and enjoy.
Andrea's style is gentle yet pulls you in, and she's never heavy-handed with lessons or judgments for her experiences and people in her life. Rather, she brings that "expansive Grand Canyon feeling" into her world regardless of where she happens to be.
Quite honestly the best book I read this year.
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Reviewed in the United States on July 12, 2021
I couldn't put this memoir down. You can tell that Ross is a poet by training, as the prose is just luscious. I especially like the ways in which this memoir tells a riveting personal story of the search to find oneself in one's biological origins, and while doing so, finding ones real home in nature and the landscape. I also appreciate how this memoir expands definitions of family from adoptive and biological to other relationships, including with the land. The opening of the book is especially rich, juxtaposing the cataclysm of the Loma Prieta earthquake to the fear Ross felt rock climbing with a boyfriend. Just a gorgeous, riveting read that adds both to burgeoning literature of adoption while simultaneously providing a feminist intervention in traditional wilderness narratives of "man conquering nature." Loved this book. Highly recommend.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 26, 2021
I've read a lot of adoption stories and I loved this book. It's a beautifully written story of self-discovery, drawing on gorgeous and insightful metaphors of nature, heredity, family, and belonging. While working as a wilderness guide leading students and visitors in the remote national parks where she feels most at home, Andrea Ross seeks to discover her own origins by searching for her birth mother. The journey is one of emotional and physical ups and downs-- it's a painful chronic physical ailment that spurs her to start the search for her birth parents. Since her adoption was "closed", the search itself is an uncertain trek through uncharted territory, a wilderness of it's own.
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Reviewed in the United States on July 28, 2021
Sometimes the description of the topic of a book doesn't really do it for me. What I really want to know is how it reads -- are the sentences constructed beautifully? Can I connect with the characters (or author in this case)? Do I feel inspired or moved? Well, in this case---yes! Though adoption is a major theme of the book, it goes well beyond that. It's also about the healing that nature provides and how our connections to each other and the wild connect. It's a "don't-want-to-put-it-down" read. Read it!
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Reviewed in the United States on July 3, 2021
I loved this memoir and found myself totally drawn into the story of the writer's search for her birth parents. But I was even more taken by the narrative of her growing connection to the environment. The descriptions of landscape and her work as a park ranger were, in and of themselves, fascinating to me, and I loved how they were interwoven with the story of her family. This is an excellent read for anyone interested in memoir, adoption, and/or how we develop our relationship to nature.
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Monica Pedzinski
5.0 out of 5 stars beautifully written! And very insightful for anyone in the adoption community.
Reviewed in Canada on January 2, 2022
A very insightful and creatively written novel about the process of finding one's original parents/family through the lens of the outdoors. As someone interested in understanding the adoption world much more, I found this very gentle and heart warming and gave me some hope for the future. Thank you for writing this book Andrea!!