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Role Reversal: How to Take Care of Yourself and Your Aging Parents Paperback – August 16, 2016
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- Print length304 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherShe Writes Press
- Publication dateAugust 16, 2016
- Dimensions5.5 x 1 x 8.5 inches
- ISBN-101631520911
- ISBN-13978-1631520914
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"With its useful resources and warm professionalism, Role Reversal is an essential read for adults thrust into the role of caregiver for their parents . . . Waichler’s personal approach to the subject is humanizing and contextualizes the plethora of useful resources she packs in. She emphasizes that the dignity of aging parents should be recognized and understood, as should the fine line between maintaining dignity and doing what is best as a caregiver." ―Foreword Reviews
"Although the book doesn’t delve deeply into any single topic, it’s the ideal way to get acquainted with the myriad of issues that can arise for the children of senior parents, whether that means determining whether one’s parents can still remain in their homes or taking steps to prevent identity theft. By offering so much advice about managing the difficult and even heartbreaking situations the author experienced, the book offers the reader a sense of speaking to a well-informed and personally invested friend rather than an impersonal medical professional. ―Publishers Weekly
“[Role Reversal] is an excellent guide for all caretakers… it is also a good book to have in one’s personal collection so that one can be organized when it comes to the needs of their aged parents.” ―Reader’s Favorite
"In her book, Role Reversal, Iris Waichler characterizes the gut-wrenching ups and downs of her father’s life and the evolution of their family. Iris eloquently weaves her father’s story through his voice and hers walking the reader through the difficult steps of being a parent and taking care of her parents’ needs as they age. She includes invaluable resources and how-to guides for every step of the aging process and the end of life decision making dance. Iris articulates the complexities of co-ordinating care in a way that simplifies what is important and what to pay attention to with each new step and decision in the process. In a meaningful way, Iris touches the reader’s heart by sharing her father’s story very close to the bone and exposing a helpful path for many who are facing similar situations. She helps demystify a difficult topic that is many times clouded by grief. She enables a safe place for the reader to engage and grow through love." ―Rebecca Whitehad Munn, author of The Gift of Goodbye: A Story of Agape Love
“Iris Waichler delicately describes the nature of life struggle as we get older. She not only describes how to be an advocate for your parents but also fulfilling that role as daughter. This book is sure to help in the understanding of words like ‘hospice’ and ‘Alzheimer’s.’ It addresses living wills, estate planning, driving concerns, adult day enhancement, nursing homes, and just what to expect during the mortal nature of living. More than anything though, it reflects on decline such that dignity may be preserved. This book is certain to lift your spirits, raise your intellect, and contribute to the purpose behind giving back to what parents give their children.” ―Steven Atkinson PA-C, MS Geriatric Internal Medicine, Adjunct Faculty-University of Utah
“Role Reversal does a beautiful job of intertwining personal experience with professional guidance. Her professional background working with older adults, combined with her long and loving relationship with her father, make her uniquely qualified to provide insight and support. With every page her father comes alive as the spirited, driven, and devoted person that he was. His story is an inspiration. This highly readable book will leave you feeling like you know Ms. Waichler and her father well. It will also gift you with resources and guidance as you engage with your parent in later life.” ―Susan Alterman, Psy/D, licensed clinical psychologist
"Iris Waichler did a beautiful job covering the various aspects and challenges related to becoming a caregiver. From the emotional and financial stresses, to the decision-making process and paperwork, caregiving can be overwhelming. This book takes a unique approach by sharing one man's incredible story while simultaneously preparing readers for the unexpected and offering resources and guidance to ease the transition." ―B. Popper, Account Director
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- Publisher : She Writes Press (August 16, 2016)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 304 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1631520911
- ISBN-13 : 978-1631520914
- Item Weight : 12.8 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.5 x 1 x 8.5 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #536,005 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #528 in Aging Parents (Books)
- #621 in Parent & Adult Child Relationships (Books)
- #16,145 in Memoirs (Books)
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About the author
Iris Waichler has been a well known patient advocate and licensed clinical social worker for the last 40 years. She began her career working with geriatric patients who experienced catastrophic illness and counseled them and their families about adapting to these medical problems. She helped them understand their medical condition helping them to cope with the disease and its impact on their lives.
She is an award winning author. In addition she is a prominent speaker presenting on topics related to infertility and caregiving. She has been featured in Redbook, Parade, MindBodygreen.com., Forbes Magazine and Next Avenue Magazine. She also has done many radio shows and podcasts.
Iris has taught and supervised social work students, medical students, interns, residents, and nurses about patient rights, ethics.
Ms. Waichler found herself in the role of a patient when she battled infertility for many years. The feelings of loss and helplessness she personally experienced were profound. She promised herself if she was successful in having a child she would do everything she could to help other people fighting infertility.
She authored a second award winning book, RIDING THE INFERTILITY ROLLER COASTER, A GUIDE TO EDUCATE AND INSPIRE. This book won 4 awards including 2 best book of the year awards. The response was so great she began doing individual and group counseling with people who had infertility. She volunteered for RESOLVE, a national infertility group, and went on to do a series of radio interviews, magazine articles, workshops, and speeches on infertility topics.
Her book, ROLE REVERSAL, HOW TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND YOUR AGING PARENTS, has won 8 major book awards. Her experience in caring for her beloved father, who died at age 97, triggered her passion in reaching out to others who suddenly find themselves in a caregiver role and are uncertain about what to do or where to go for help. In this book she shares her father’s inspiring story and her personal and professional experience in assuming the challenges that come with being a caregiver for an aging loved one.
Iris has been doing freelance writing for the last 18 years. The focus of her work has been on health related topics. She also does workshops and speeches offering caregiving tips for caregiver family members and educating healthcare professionals.
Ms. Waichler lives in Chicago with her husband, Steve, and her daughter, Grace and her mini golden doodle Brandi. She loves to travel whenever she can and to spend time with friends and family.
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That is not my case at all as I am a single person living in the same town as my elderly mother thousands of miles away from my siblings. I am the only relative in the state and the only help in town. The majority of her advice is useless for me. My mother lives independently in a life care facility. You would think that that would mean that I would have lots of help. Nope. The problem is my mother doesn’t want help and refuses to have any help come into her apartment. The author doesn’t address the situation at all. If she does, it’s buried some where, in between her musings about her relationship with her father and his life history.
Of all the books that I have purchased and read about caring for your elderly parents this is without any doubt any doubt the worst. Don’t waste your money.
--Angie M
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