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Don't Sing at the Table: Life Lessons from My Grandmothers Hardcover – November 9, 2010

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"No one ever reads just one of Trigiani’s wonderfully quirky tales. Once you pick up the first, you are hooked.” —BookPage

New York Times bestselling author Adriana Trigiani shares a treasure trove of insight and guidance from her two grandmothers: time-tested, common sense advice on the most important aspects of a woman’s life, from childhood to the golden years. Seamlessly blending anecdote with life lesson, Don’t Sing at the Table tells the two vibrant women’s real-life stories—how they fell in love, nurtured their marriages, balanced raising children with being savvy businesswomen, and reinvented themselves with each new decade. For readers of Big Stone Gap, Very Valentine, Lucia, Lucia, and Rococo, this loving memoir is the Trigiani family recipe for chicken soup for the soul

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Fans of novelist Trigiani will be delighted with this guided tour through the author's family history via her grandmothers, Lucia and Viola. She lovingly details the women's lives and recounts the lessons she's learned while offering a fascinating look at U.S. history from the perspective of her Italian-American forebears. Both Lucia and Viola worked hard from an early age, cooking and cleaning among any number of chores, and parlayed their work ethic and expertise into strong careers. Viola started out as a machine operator and, later, co-owned a mill with her husband, while Lucia worked in a factory and then became a seamstress and storefront couturier. Her grandmothers also took pride in passing along wisdom to others; throughout her life, Trigiani benefited from their guidance regarding everything from marriage to money, creativity to religion. She credits them with telling good stories: "I mimicked their work ethic imagining myself in a factory, layering words like tasks until the work was done. I took away more than life lessons from their stories; I made a career out of it." Here, Trigiani combines family and American history, reflections on lives well-lived, and sound advice to excellent effect, as a legacy to her daughter and a remembrance of two inimitable women. (Nov.) (c)
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It would seem, after reading Trigiani’s Don’t Sing at the Table, that most, if not all, of the well-loved author’s best qualities came directly from observing and knowing her grandmothers. Both hardworking, Italian, and coated head-to-toe in their heritage, vivacious Viola Trigiani and tireless Lucy Bonicelli instilled in their children and, clearly, granddaughter Trigiani many simple, profound, and universal values. These addages Trigiani relays and expounds on in floridly, curlicue thoughts: own your own business; plan on the rainy day; good manners are not negotiable; and, of course, don’t sing at the table (readers will pick up the book just to make sense of that one!). Soothingly and with clarity, the author speaks of eventually losing her grandmothers with the same gratitude as she describes the precious time she spent with them. Readers will find her strength and optimism helpful, and her legions of loyal fans will enjoy learning more about the women who influenced, inspired, and, according to Trigiani, made possible some of her best-selling fiction. --Annie Bostrom

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ 0061958948
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Harper; First Edition first Printing (November 9, 2010)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 224 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 9780061958946
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0061958946
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 11.2 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.75 x 8.25 inches
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Beloved by millions of readers around the world as one of the "reigning queens of women's fiction", (USA Today), Adriana Trigiani is The New York Times bestselling author of 20 books in fiction and nonfiction, including The Shoemaker’s Wife, The Good Left Undone, Don’t Sing at the Table, and Lucia, Lucia. Published in 38 languages, The New York Times calls her "a comedy writer with a heart of gold", and her books "tiramisu for the soul". She is host of the hit podcast, You Are What You Read, in conversation with the great minds of our time about the books that built their souls.

Adriana is an award-winning playwright, television writer/producer and filmmaker. She wrote and directed the major motion picture adaptation of her debut novel Big Stone Gap, adapted her novel Very Valentine for television and directed Then Came You. She wrote and directed the documentary film, Queens of the Big Time, winner of the Audience Award at the Hamptons International Film Festival and Audience award at the Palm Springs International Film Festival. The film was also featured at the London and Hong Kong International Film festivals.

Trigiani grew up in the Blue Ridge Mountains of Virginia where she co-founded The Origin Project, an in-school writing program serving over 2,700 students in Appalachia. In 2023, she was knighted with the Cavaliere dell'Ordine della Stella d'Italia by President Sergio Mattarella of Italy. She is proud to serve on the New York State Council on the Arts and lives in New York City with her family.

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Reviewed in the United States on November 17, 2023
Historical, informative, loving, enjoyable read about the author’s two grandmothers.
Contains many thoughts worth remembering and perhaps rereading later on.
Reviewed in the United States on February 18, 2024
This story visits the lives of Italian women who moved to America to start a family and business life that would set the standard for American success,
Reviewed in the United States on December 2, 2010
This cookbook written by Adriana and her sisters brought back memories of my own family and the recipes from my grandmother and my mom, since I also come from an Italian family. I enjoyed some of the unfamiliar ones like the polenta, because we never had this when I was growing up. Adriana's warmth and wit shines through in this delightful addition to ones collection of books by this wonderful author. I can't wait to try out some of the recipes for my family and friends. With the Christmas season upon us now, it is the perfect time to indulge in the entrees and sweet and decadent desserts for upcoming family gatherings. Thank you Adriana!!
Reviewed in the United States on November 23, 2010
Adriana Trigiani's first non-fiction book is a tribute to Grandmothers and the strong bonds they have with their families. In this beautiful, heartwarming book she shares stories about her wonderful two Grandmothers, and the profound impact they made on her life. This book really speaks to me, as a person who was raised by my Grandmother and miss her dearly more and more everyday. Adriana does an wonderful job describing hard working, loving, dedicated women who make family the center of their worlds. In doing so, we are reminded in endearing ways of life lessons that are invaluable to us today. We are reminded of simpler times and wish more people were like these wonderful women. And nobody writes about the Italian American family dynamic like Adriana!

This would be a terrific holiday gift for grandmothers, moms, sisters, relatives or anyone who has warm treasured memories of their Grandmothers. Highest Recommendation!
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Reviewed in the United States on February 11, 2019
This is not the usual kind of books (Don’t sing at the table: Life lessons from my grandmothers by Adriana Trigiani) you will find me reading; however, after only reading a few pages I got hooked. In many ways my own Italian/American background was somewhat similar when it comes to the many lessons I learned about life.

In my case it was my wonderful Aunts who I grew to love and respect. This 204 page hardcover volume tells the story of the many important values and lessons the author learned from her two grandmothers Viola and Lucia. The author has a large following and is a New York Times bestselling author whose themes relate to her Italian/American background.

This book is also filled with black and white photographs which brings the characters to life in each chapter. The ten chapters cover the following material: Viola, Lucia, the factory life, storefront couturier, security, La Bella Figura, sex and marriage, the places you’ll go, children and belief.

I found this book to be a delightful and an entertaining read, which fans of Adriana Trigiani will love.

Rating: 5 Stars. Joseph J. Truncale (Author: Haiku Moments: How to read, write and enjoy Haiku).
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Reviewed in the United States on July 8, 2017
I have read several of Trigiani's fiction books and love them. Adriana Trigiani is such a good story teller that this nonfiction book read just as quickly. It was quirky and touching and just very entertaining. By the time I had finished the book, I felt as if I knew her grandmother's and learned from them as well. My only wish is that I could see the pictures better on my Kindle so I may have to look those up separately. It was an excellent read that I would definitely recommend.
Reviewed in the United States on May 12, 2013
the author got very preachy......about her grandmother's lessons and how we need to apply it.

As for the title.....there was one small reference to not singing at the table......

wait until it's a free title.
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Reviewed in the United States on November 15, 2010
As an avid reader who follows the work of a certain author, I often wonder where they get their story lines, and how they develop their characters.. Adriana Trigiani not only writes fantastic novels, creating memorable characters, but in writing "Don't Sing At The Table", exposed who were the women behind the creation of some of the best characters. I clearly see her grandmothers in my favorite character, Nella Castelluca, the heroine in the novel, Queen of the Big Time .All of Adriana's female characters are women of strength and determination, much like the many of the women I knew growing up.

As an Italian American woman, I related to Adriana's grandmothers. Many of my generation had grandmothers & great-aunts who were self-employed, independent, whose husbands served in the United States Military during World War I (the forgotten war), got their citizenship, and during that time, their wives became automatic citizens once they married. Many lost their husbands at a young age, most didn't remarry. My own grandmother set priorities and raised my mother alone, working hard at sometimes more than one job, while running a household.

I saw my own grandfather and great-uncles in her grandfather. These were people, though they were immigrants, were much more at ease in the American culture. All of that generation had a strong sense of identity, they were comfortable with who they were. They had a set of rules that not only they followed but expected everyone else to adhere to. Adriana emphasized how important their expectations were. She also did a great job of blending the old world and the new world. She devoted a few pages explaining how much outsourcing has affected us..how we have lost quality and craftsmanship. All in all, I highly recommend this book if you are a Trigiani fan, as she has let you into her life. It gives you an understanding on what inspires Adriana Trigiani.
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Fab little book, love Adriana Trigiani, her books are always entertaining, these stories of her grandmothers are enlightening, funny etc all the things you expect from Adriana. Great value for money, arrived in good time and in excellent condition.
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Reviewed in Canada on January 30, 2017
Did not read it.waiting Ted to.