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Then She Found Me: A Novel Kindle Edition

3.9 3.9 out of 5 stars 222 ratings

April Epner teaches high school Latin, wears flannel jumpers, and is used to having her evenings free. Bernice Graverman brandishes designer labels, favors toad-sized earrings, and hosts her own tacky TV talk show: Bernice G!

But behind the glitz and glam, Bernice has followed the life of the daughter she gave up for adoption thirty-six years ago. Now that she's got her act together, she's aiming to be a mom like she always knew she could. And she's hurtling straight for April's quiet little life....

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Meet April Epner, the serious, scholarly, adopted daughter of two equally staid parents. They die, but April finds that she's far from orphaned when her birth mother, Bernice Graverman, comes to claim April's heart and improve her wardrobe and love life, too. April is a Latin teacher, given to wearing flannel jumpers. Bernice is hostess of a third-rate daytime talk show and wears designer labels and toad-sized earrings. She descends upon April's quiet life with the tact of a size-six locust, and the delightful and surprising results of this unlikely reunion will keep you turning pages long after bedtime.

From Publishers Weekly

Quiet and content April Epner, a high school Latin teacher whose adoptive parents are recently deceased, is claimed by her birth mother, an obnoxious TV talk show hostess. "Raising laughter and tears with acutely observed characterizations and dry, affectionate wit, Lipman also keeps dealing out the surprises, leaving readers smiling long after the last page is turned," PW said.
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Product details

  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B002VB3EW2
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Washington Square Press; Original ed. edition (November 24, 2009)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ November 24, 2009
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 841 KB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 322 pages
  • Page numbers source ISBN ‏ : ‎ 0671686151
  • Customer Reviews:
    3.9 3.9 out of 5 stars 222 ratings

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Elinor Lipman
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Elinor Lipman is the award-winning author of 16 books of fiction and nonfiction including "The Inn at Lake Devine," "Isabel's Bed," "On Turpentine Lane," "Good Riddance," "I Can't Complain: (All Too) Personal Essays," “Rachel to the Rescue,” and most recently, "Ms. Demeanor." Her first novel, "Then She Found Me," became a 2008 feature film, directed by and starring Helen Hunt, with Bette Midler, Colin Firth, and Matthew Broderick. She was the 2011-12 Elizabeth Drew professor of creative writing at Smith College, and winner of the New England Bookseller Award and the Paterson Fiction Prize. Her book reviews and essays have appeared in the Washington Post, Boston Globe and New York Times, including two "Modern Love" essays.

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Customers find the story interesting and enjoyable. They describe the book as witty, poignant, and insightful. Many readers enjoyed the book from start to finish, finding it a good read before bed. The humor is described as modern and funny, with realistic dialogue. The book keeps customers' attention with its entertaining relationship and characters.

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Customers enjoy the story's engaging characters and plot twist. They find the book humorous, poignant, and insightful.

"...It explores issues of family, adoption, and mature romance in a charming story with a main character you can identify with...." Read more

"...The book of course had more depth and complicated story line and I really enjoyed the characters and banter between mother and daughter." Read more

"...Ms. Lipman's book is charming, insightful, and humorous. This comes as no surprise to me, having read everything Ms. Lipman has published." Read more

"This charming little story reveals how a reunion between a grown woman and her birth mother can totally change the lives of each of them, in..." Read more

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Customers find the book easy to read and enjoyable. They say it's a good book to read before bed, but some find it better after several readings. Many describe it as a light, fun read that improves with each subsequent reading.

"I enjoyed it from the beginning but for some reason my attention ebbed. I accidentally came across the title on tv...." Read more

"I enjoyed reading this novel about a child given up for adoption who later encounters her biological mother...." Read more

"It was very good, but the conquest of the very aggressive Birth Mother doesn't happen as much anymore. Today's parents are much less-invasive..." Read more

"...It was a good book to read just before I went to bed...to put me to sleep. Not a lot of thought involved." Read more

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Customers enjoy the book's humor. They find it witty, poignant, and entertaining with realistic dialogue. The writing is described as modern and humorous.

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"...Ms. Lipman's book is charming, insightful, and humorous. This comes as no surprise to me, having read everything Ms. Lipman has published." Read more

"...This is not what I expected. Other reviewers used the words: bright, funny, charming, raising laughter and tears...." Read more

"I am so glad I found Elinor Lipman. A modern humorous author." Read more

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"Entertaining,engaging characters and plot twist however not terribly realistic about adoption." Read more

"A classic Elinor Lipman. All of her books are breezy, pure fun. The characters are all lovable and it’s hard to say goodbye when the book is over!" Read more

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"...course had more depth and complicated story line and I really enjoyed the characters and banter between mother and daughter." Read more

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Top reviews from the United States

  • Reviewed in the United States on January 9, 2013
    I'm a huge fan of Eleanor Lipman's books, and this is my favorite. It's *nothing* like the horrible film supposedly based on it, which wasted a great cast of Helen Hunt, Colin Firth and Bette Midler on a plot that has almost nothing in common with the book. The book is witty, poignant and also quite funny. It explores issues of family, adoption, and mature romance in a charming story with a main character you can identify with. April Epner is a thirty something high school Latin teacher whose life is changed in many ways when her biological mother "finds her." The mother is almost a caricature, but it all works.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on November 25, 2024
    I enjoyed it from the beginning but for some reason my attention ebbed. I accidentally came across the title on tv. I loved the film and had faces to go with the characters. The initial description of Dwight was unappealing but after I had Helen Hunt, Bette Miller and Colin Firth for my imagination it took off! The book of course had more depth and complicated story line and I really enjoyed the characters and banter between mother and daughter.
  • Reviewed in the United States on July 30, 2015
    Entertaining,engaging characters and plot twist however not terribly realistic about adoption.
  • Reviewed in the United States on June 13, 2014
    As a wise man said, "Reading the last page of a good book is like saying goodbye to a dear friend." Elinor Lipman's books really do get better with age. April, the sensibly dressed Latin teacher, is encountered by Bernice, her quirky, sometimes outrageous, biological mother. A common plot line, some might think, but April and her mother are seemingly polar opposites. As the relationship develops, I found myself cheering on the two women, despite sometimes wanting to give Bernice a light slap. Ms. Lipman's book is charming, insightful, and humorous. This comes as no surprise to me, having read everything Ms. Lipman has published.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on February 22, 2023
    Although it initially seems strange that a mother who gave her child up for adoption at six months old would try to find and then try to develop a relationship with when she is an adult, the idea grew on this reader. The mother is a celebrity but is also lonely and seeking a relationship with her child. Much later the adoptee meets her birth father and feels drawn to him. The unlikely event that she would be drawn to people who in some sense abandoned her when she was old enough to know they were her mother and father, creates a strange situation when their daughter accepts them and loves them instead of hating them. She also seeks a normal marital relationship between her father and mother. A strange situation all round.
  • Reviewed in the United States on January 23, 2008
    An obnoxious woman enters the life of her biological daughter, now 36 years old, whom she gave up at birth. This is not what I expected. Other reviewers used the words: bright, funny, charming, raising laughter and tears. I was hoping to laugh out loud and to be surprised and delighted, but I wasn't. Bernice was eccentric and interesting only when I would think of Bette Midler playing her in the movie, but she wasn't enjoyable to read about. Bernice exaggerated with lies, was self absorbed, pushy, inconsiderate and needy.

    I did like the relationship between Dwight and April. For that reason alone I gave this two stars rather than one. It was heartwarming to see the shy male librarian living with his parents bloom into a sexy, warm, caring man in love. I also enjoyed Freddie, April's brother. He had a small part toward the end of the book.

    However, since most of the book was about the mother and daughter, which was not enjoyable, I cannot recommend it. Sexual language: mild. Number of sex scenes: one. Setting: 1988 and early 1950s Boston and Quincy, Massachusettes. Copyright: 1990. Genre: human relationships fiction (not a romance novel).
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  • Reviewed in the United States on March 30, 2023
    I am so glad I found Elinor Lipman. A modern humorous author.
  • Reviewed in the United States on September 7, 2008
    This charming little story reveals how a reunion between a grown woman and her birth mother can totally change the lives of each of them, in unexpected ways.

    April Epner teaches high school Latin, dresses for comfort, and lives a no-nonsense life. Not much going on socially, but this doesn't seem to bother her.

    Her adoptive parents have died, within two years of one another, and April does feel at loose ends. She doesn't think much about her birth mother, so when she is contacted by a friend of the woman, she doesn't really believe it at first. This celebrity talk-show hostess couldn't
    possibly be her mother!

    They gradually come to know one another---kind of like mixing oil and water---but April finds that her life is changing pleasantly, in subtle ways. She opens herself to a relationship with the school librarian and she even allows herself to make small changes in other aspects of her life. Closed off and detached from relationships as she has been, she finds that, even at the unlikely age of thirty-six, one can find love and family connections.

    There are some predictable moments in this tale, like seeing a "talk-show reunion moment" played out, but Then She Found Me: A Novel leaves the reader with a warm, tingly glow.
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  • margret hale
    5.0 out of 5 stars Enchanting, funny, warm-hearted and full of wisdom
    Reviewed in Germany on July 22, 2008
    I enjoyed reading this novel. Well, I needed some time to get to know the characters and to get drawn into the story but as soon as this had happened I really enjoyed the well written book. This is not a fairy tale about fantasy people you can classify in white and black. It's a story about real people, who fall in love, make mistakes and how they cope with that.
    Whenever I started to hate Bernice Graves because of her egoistical way of life and about her always wanting to be the centre of everything the story took a little turn so that I coulnd't think in white and black any longer. Compelling, lovely written and with such a nice love relationship full of heart and warmth, which everbody should have to be happy.
    But I was really dissapointed to find out that the film-adaption doesn't follow the contents of the novel. What a pity!

    Deutscher Übersetzungstitel: Als sie mich fand.
  • Lucy M
    4.0 out of 5 stars i liked it
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on April 19, 2014
    i enjoyed reading this story, but felt their may have been something missing at the end. I'm not sure, i watched the film first (Maybe a bad idea) and really enjoyed it, then decided to read the book to see how they compared.
    im not really sure which i prefer. an enjoyable read none-the-less and recommended for fans of the movie. (Although the two aren't similar in the slightest.)

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