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Start with Hello: (And Other Simple Ways to Live as Neighbors) Paperback – October 11, 2022

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A simple path to a more deeply connected life

You want more. You want to belong to a community that looks out for each other. You believe in your bones we don't have to live detached, distracted, and divided. The question is,
How? Shannan Martin invites you into deeper connection through simple resets, such as

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Open Door > Perfect Décor. We invite others in, seeking to connect, not impress.
·
Familiar > Fussy. We serve tacos and pizza like the feasts they are, because fancy is overrated.
·
Tender > Tough. We greet the world with our hearts exposed and our guards down.

Packed with street-level practices and real-talk storytelling,
Start with Hello is your field guide for a life of security, camaraderie, and joy. There is no step too small.


"As it turns out, there is no
them but only us, and this is the book we both want and need to help us find our way back to each other."--Emily P. Freeman, Wall Street Journal bestselling author of The Next Right Thing

"
Start with Hello is a love letter to community and a call to action toward radical, realistic hospitality."--Osheta Moore, pastor, speaker, and author of Dear White Peacemakers

"This book will change you in a way you've been craving to change. It makes being a neighbor, not to mention a person, just so beautifully . . .
doable."--Kendra Adachi, New York Times bestselling author of The Lazy Genius Way

"This book is lovely, warm, honest. It brims with possibility."--
Jen Hatmaker, New York Times bestselling author of Fierce, Free, and Full of Fire
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A simple path to a more deeply connected life

You want more. You want to belong to a community that looks out for each other. You believe in your bones we don't have to live detached, distracted, and divided. The question is,
How? Shannan Martin invites you into deeper connection through simple resets, such as

·
Open Door > Perfect Décor. We invite others in, seeking to connect, not impress.
·
Familiar > Fussy. We serve tacos and pizza like the feasts they are, because fancy is overrated.
·
Tender > Tough. We greet the world with our hearts exposed and our guards down.

Packed with street-level practices and real-talk storytelling,
Start with Hello is your field guide for a life of security, camaraderie, and joy. There is no step too small.


"As it turns out, there is no
them but only us, and this is the book we both want and need to help us find our way back to each other."--Emily P. Freeman, Wall Street Journal bestselling author of The Next Right Thing

"
Start with Hello is a love letter to community and a call to action toward radical, realistic hospitality."--Osheta Moore, pastor, speaker, and author of Dear White Peacemakers

"This book will change you in a way you've been craving to change. It makes being a neighbor, not to mention a person, just so beautifully . . .
doable."--Kendra Adachi, New York Times bestselling author of The Lazy Genius Way

"This book is lovely, warm, honest. It brims with possibility."--
Jen Hatmaker, New York Times bestselling author of Fierce, Free, and Full of Fire

About the Author

Shannan Martin, author of The Ministry of Ordinary Places and Falling Free,is a speaker and writer who found her voice in the country and her story in the city. Shannan works as a cook at The Window, a local nonprofit dedicated to feeding its community. She, her jail-chaplain husband, and their kids live as grateful neighborsin Goshen, Indiana. Follow her on Instagram @shannanwrites.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Revell (October 11, 2022)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 224 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0800740890
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0800740894
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 11.2 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.51 x 8.5 inches
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Shannan Martin, author of Start with Hello, The Ministry of Ordinary Places, and Falling Free, is a speaker and writer who found her voice in the country and her story in the city. Shannan works as a cook at The Window, a local non-profit dedicated to feeding its community. She and her family live as grateful neighbors in Goshen, Indiana.

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New definition for hospitality: “Ask for what you need. Offer what you have.”
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New definition for hospitality: “Ask for what you need. Offer what you have.”
I love everything Shannan writes, and she’s my favorite follow on Instagram. I was thrilled to receive an ARC and be able to read and review this book. It’s a beautiful and so practical guide to living lives of giving, receiving, loving and living as neighbors, whether you live in the city, country, or suburbs or if you’re an introvert or extrovert. This book really is for everyone. She graciously speaks truth on so many topics that are hard to talk about and breaks things down into digestible morsels, but in the most gorgeous way. I love her real life stories, and the ways she is open about her own failures and areas of growth. She is a poet and a prophet and I wish she was my neighbor. Her honesty inspires and encourages me so much. I want everyone to read this book, and truly, I think everyone could learn something from this book. It’s not preachy and it’s not churchy. It’s conversational and feels like sitting down with a mug of tea on the front porch with a dear friend. This book really is for everyone. Here’s some of my favorite quotes from the book: “Ask for what you need. Offer what you have.”“We don’t pursue connection because we know it will be easy. We pursue connection because we believe it multiplies our possibilities for wholeness.”
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Reviewed in the United States on October 23, 2022
By turns challenging, encouraging, poetic, and practical - START WITH HELLO is a voice we need in our world.

If you’ve ever felt a tug to get more connected to the people around you, but don’t know where to start: this is the book for you.

If you’ve internalized messages from a churchy space that “hospitality” has to look or sound a certain way for it to “count” or for it to be virtuous: this is the book for you.

If you know there’s more you could do to bridge the racial, economic, and experiential divides that currently separate you from your neighbors, but you aren’t sure how to take any of that on: this is the book for you.

Shannan is relatable and friendly, honest and pragmatic. This isn’t a list of fussy or showy steps to curate a picture-perfect, social-media-darling, award-winning arrangement. It is more like a thought- and reflection-provoking conversation to help you make small changes or take small actions that will make a difference in how you cultivate relationships in your real, lived neighborhood.

(I received an advanced copy of this book from the publisher. My review is my own opinion.)
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5.0 out of 5 stars Encouraging + Challenging
Reviewed in the United States on October 23, 2022
By turns challenging, encouraging, poetic, and practical - START WITH HELLO is a voice we need in our world.

If you’ve ever felt a tug to get more connected to the people around you, but don’t know where to start: this is the book for you.

If you’ve internalized messages from a churchy space that “hospitality” has to look or sound a certain way for it to “count” or for it to be virtuous: this is the book for you.

If you know there’s more you could do to bridge the racial, economic, and experiential divides that currently separate you from your neighbors, but you aren’t sure how to take any of that on: this is the book for you.

Shannan is relatable and friendly, honest and pragmatic. This isn’t a list of fussy or showy steps to curate a picture-perfect, social-media-darling, award-winning arrangement. It is more like a thought- and reflection-provoking conversation to help you make small changes or take small actions that will make a difference in how you cultivate relationships in your real, lived neighborhood.

(I received an advanced copy of this book from the publisher. My review is my own opinion.)
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Reviewed in the United States on October 26, 2022
I have been a subscriber of Shannan's for a while now, but this is my first book of hers that I have read. I am drawn to her authentic, bring your whole self, and pay attention vibe in general, and this book did not disappoint. She is a master of bringing what often feels like a huge, impossible knot (making connections) and breaking it down into accessible, real life steps (while simultaneously calling out our white privilege without being performative, and also getting us real hyped about skies and socks.) This lovely book contains multitudes, nuance and above all, humanity. I appreciated the way she broke it down by comparing what we normally think we need to what we actually need to have lifegiving connections. The practical steps at the end of each chapter was also very helpful for me.

If you find yourself longing to know your neighbors more, to be connected to those you find yourself next to but not CLOSE to, this is the book for you. Come for the shared love of tacos, stay for the heart hitting truths: "I am convinced our path forward is paved in concrete and asphalt. It is the sidewalks, the back roads, the drive-thru lines, and the grocery aisles that will help us course-correct. Welcoming nuance with a soft heart and open arms is a skill on the decline. But we are up for the challenge because we refuse to believe that a healthier, kinder world is only a false hope or fantasy." Amen.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 27, 2022
Imagine this- a book that gives you actionable steps for connecting well with the people around you, but instead of those steps making your life harder, they actually make it easier. What is this magic?? Shannan is so kind and humble as she shares her life experience with the rest of us and helps us think through the natural paths to connection.
I love to host, but don't often do it. I need control, I need details, etc. Here's how this book encouraged me to let go a bit- I texted some random neighbors that I would be serving chili and they should come by if they could. And they replied things like "cool!" or "that's so nice!" but didn't actually say if they were coming or not. So now I have to wait and see. Will we have enough? Will anyone show up? Somebody did ask if they could bring something and I wanted to say no, but instead I remembered that Shannan encouraged us to ask for help, so I said "paper bowls please!" This exercise in social anxiety is brought to you by "Start with Hello" :) But seriously- this book is one I will be thinking over for months to come.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 11, 2022
I love everything Shannan writes, and she’s my favorite follow on Instagram. I was thrilled to receive an ARC and be able to read and review this book. It’s a beautiful and so practical guide to living lives of giving, receiving, loving and living as neighbors, whether you live in the city, country, or suburbs or if you’re an introvert or extrovert. This book really is for everyone. She graciously speaks truth on so many topics that are hard to talk about and breaks things down into digestible morsels, but in the most gorgeous way. I love her real life stories, and the ways she is open about her own failures and areas of growth. She is a poet and a prophet and I wish she was my neighbor. Her honesty inspires and encourages me so much. I want everyone to read this book, and truly, I think everyone could learn something from this book. It’s not preachy and it’s not churchy. It’s conversational and feels like sitting down with a mug of tea on the front porch with a dear friend. This book really is for everyone. Here’s some of my favorite quotes from the book: “Ask for what you need. Offer what you have.”

“We don’t pursue connection because we know it will be easy. We pursue connection because we believe it multiplies our possibilities for wholeness.”
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5.0 out of 5 stars New definition for hospitality: “Ask for what you need. Offer what you have.”
Reviewed in the United States on October 11, 2022
I love everything Shannan writes, and she’s my favorite follow on Instagram. I was thrilled to receive an ARC and be able to read and review this book. It’s a beautiful and so practical guide to living lives of giving, receiving, loving and living as neighbors, whether you live in the city, country, or suburbs or if you’re an introvert or extrovert. This book really is for everyone. She graciously speaks truth on so many topics that are hard to talk about and breaks things down into digestible morsels, but in the most gorgeous way. I love her real life stories, and the ways she is open about her own failures and areas of growth. She is a poet and a prophet and I wish she was my neighbor. Her honesty inspires and encourages me so much. I want everyone to read this book, and truly, I think everyone could learn something from this book. It’s not preachy and it’s not churchy. It’s conversational and feels like sitting down with a mug of tea on the front porch with a dear friend. This book really is for everyone. Here’s some of my favorite quotes from the book: “Ask for what you need. Offer what you have.”

“We don’t pursue connection because we know it will be easy. We pursue connection because we believe it multiplies our possibilities for wholeness.”
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Reviewed in the United States on October 11, 2022
Have you ever felt the need or desire for deeper connection but found you don't know exactly where to start to get the connection you crave? This is the book you need to read! Shannan Martin is a beautiful writer that comes to us in this book with a message that we desperately need to hear. Filled to the brim with incredibly tangible steps to be present and awake to the world around us and also to those people in our midst. You will walk away inspired and equipped to take a closer step to your neighbors and walk away forever changed for the better.

"We awaken and awaken and awaken ourselves because the world outside is not scary or separate. It's what holds us together. We face it with arms linked and eyes wide because we are the electricity we don't want to miss."

This is a book I will return to again and again...and already am buying additional copies to give as gifts!
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Amy Jo Smith
5.0 out of 5 stars This is a must order - one for you - and one to share!
Reviewed in Canada on October 15, 2022
I have been waiting for the wit and wisdom in the pages of this book - and Shannan's words have not disappointed! I have followed her words and voice for a while, appreciating their compassionate clarity and insight into the complexities of how to really "neighbor" in a world with so many barriers and divisions. In Start With Hello she leads us in believing again that we really do need each other, and the only way towards each other is one small, simple step at a time. A hello. An awkward invitation. A messy kitchen and a chat over tea anyways. A believing that the risk is worth it, setting trust as our default. And letting the beauty of the sky itself above us be our guide in reminding us every day as we look up that there is beauty and wholeness to be discovered in connection. And it will happen if we pay attention. "Creating a rhythm of attentiveness awakens us to possibility and tunes our hearts to the key of wonder. The sky belongs to everyone..."
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5.0 out of 5 stars This is a must order - one for you - and one to share!
Reviewed in Canada on October 15, 2022
I have been waiting for the wit and wisdom in the pages of this book - and Shannan's words have not disappointed! I have followed her words and voice for a while, appreciating their compassionate clarity and insight into the complexities of how to really "neighbor" in a world with so many barriers and divisions. In Start With Hello she leads us in believing again that we really do need each other, and the only way towards each other is one small, simple step at a time. A hello. An awkward invitation. A messy kitchen and a chat over tea anyways. A believing that the risk is worth it, setting trust as our default. And letting the beauty of the sky itself above us be our guide in reminding us every day as we look up that there is beauty and wholeness to be discovered in connection. And it will happen if we pay attention. "Creating a rhythm of attentiveness awakens us to possibility and tunes our hearts to the key of wonder. The sky belongs to everyone..."
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Tara Craig
5.0 out of 5 stars Another action provoking book by Shannan!
Reviewed in Canada on October 31, 2022
Shannan has a way of using her words to spur us into the best kind of action. Using humour and imagery to help us see that community is right outside our front door, a community that needs us all to show up in the simplest, messiest form!
Christine
5.0 out of 5 stars So helpful and tasty recipes
Reviewed in Canada on October 26, 2022
So helpful. Detailed instructions. Super shortcuts. Yummy food