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Run Like Hell: A Therapist’s Guide to Recognizing, Escaping, and Healing from Trauma Bonds Kindle Edition

by Nadine Macaluso LMFT PhD (Author) Format: Kindle Edition
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Change your present and seize your exceptional future by escaping your painful trauma bond, healing, and thriving!

At age twenty-two, Nadine married Jordan Belfort, the nefarious stockbroker portrayed in the Hollywood blockbuster The Wolf of Wall Street. Their marriage began as a fairy tale, but once they were bonded, Jordan’s “mask” began to slip, and acts of infidelity, narcissistic abuse, insatiable greed, and uncontrollable drug addiction became Nadine’s nightmare.

The horrific relationship gave Nadine the inspiration to become a psychotherapist specializing in narcissistic abuse, trauma bonds, and complex PTSD. Her private practice quickly flooded with women recounting an all-too-familiar story of abuse with a pathological partner. Perhaps this scenario resonates with you.

In Run Like Hell, Nadine brings you her personal experience and years of expertise to explain

• the mental health of the narcissistic pathological lover (PL),

• the traits of women who are the perfect “victims” of these PLs,

• how you can leave a trauma bond safely, and

• how you can heal.

Nadine also shows how you and other women can be surthrivers of these trauma bonds and go on to have healthy, positive relationships and lives, armed with knowledge and awareness. So Run Like Hell from damaging trauma bonds and live with awareness, practice self-love and care, and thrive, regardless of your past.

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”Run Like Hell salves the stigma attached to falling prey to charming, charismatic men who turn out to be manipulative and controlling, offering commiseration and a path out of the nightmare. Throughout, Macaluso and the women whose stories she shares speak hard truths (“Your PL will always flip the script and claim to be the victim”) that could help readers make major changes. Positive, informative, and urgently necessary, this guide demystifies these relationships in inviting prose and with ample heart."
—Publishers Weekly BookLife, Editor's Pick

”Nadine Macaluso’s self-help book Run Like Hell concerns the specific problems that women face in and out of abusive relationships, naming strategies for overcoming traumatic experiences. Its expertise is personal, drawing on Macaluso’s infamous marriage to “Wolf of Wall Street” Jordan Belfort (portrayed by Leonardo DiCaprio in Martin Scorsese’s film)—as well as on knowledge gained from her PhD work in somatic psychotherapy...Run Like Hell is an insightful, sympathetic self-help book filled with practical recommendations for trauma-bond survivors."
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"Nadine Macaluso's inspiring words and her example of personal growth are a shining beacon to women who are anxious about taking the first step away from a pathological lover. Run Like Hell is an excellent selection for readers who seek to put a name to the symptoms surrounding a toxic relationship and find ways to heal from it and become a 'surthriver.' "
—Readers' Favorite

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About the Author

Dr. Nadine Macaluso is a licensed marriage and family therapist in private practice. She received her master’s in counseling psychology and doctorate in depth psychology with an emphasis on somatic psychotherapy from Pacifica Graduate Institute in California. She completed a two-year post-doctoral training in an evidence-based psychotherapeutic treatment method called the Neuro-affective Relational Model (NARM), which is designed to treat complex trauma. Combining her professional training with her personal experience of being married to the infamous Wolf of Wall Street, Dr. Nae is now a leading expert in trauma bonds, shame, relationships, complex trauma, and Dark Tetrad personalities. Nadine currently has over 306,000 followers on TikTok @drnaelmft.

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Dr. Nadine Macaluso is a licensed marriage and family therapist in private practice. She received her master’s in counseling psychology and doctorate in depth psychology with an emphasis on somatic psychotherapy from Pacifica Graduate Institute in California. She completed a two-year post-doctoral training in an evidence-based psychotherapeutic treatment method called the NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM), which is designed to treat complex trauma. Combining her professional training with her personal experience of being married to the infamous Wolf of Wall Street, Dr. Nae is now a leading expert in trauma bonds, shame, relationships, complex trauma, and Dark Tetrad personalities. Nadine currently has over 306,000 followers on TikTok @drnaelmft.

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This book is a professionally written guide to recognizing and dealing with toxic relationships. It is very clearly written and uses real examples to help lay readers understand important concepts. Each chapter ends with a summary of the most salient points. It is a book that will provide support and encouragement to women who find themselves stuck in abusive/intolerable situations with partners.
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5.0 out of 5 stars The book I’ve been searching for
Reviewed in the United States on April 28, 2024
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Ladies, this is the book to read if you’re currently in, been in or just left a trauma bond relationship.

I was married for 8 years in a trauma bond relationship and have now been out for 3 years. Since being out of this relationship there has been 20 + women come forward on YouTube and TikTok that have gone through the same/ or similar thing with my ex.

Once I had made an escape plan and got out, I didn’t look back. But the one thing I haven’t been able to get over is how I got myself in this mess, why I stayed for so long, how did I…let this happen? Especially after some of the other women figured it out within months.. why did I stay for yearsss.

This book answered all my questions and more. This is a huge tool in my healing journey and I will re-read and re-read for years to come. Thank you Nadine for dedicating your research and life to this work. You have made me feel seen, not alone and given me in valuable tools to move forward in my life.
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5.0 out of 5 stars THIS BOOK WILL CHANGE LIVES! 5 GLOWING STARS!
Reviewed in the United States on April 14, 2024
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Wow! Dr. Macaluso really hit it out of the park with this one! Talk about turning pain into PURPOSE!

As a divorce attorney, I see how women (and men) struggle to understand the traumas they've endured in toxic marriages, and also to find to courage to break the trauma bonds and leave their abusers.

This book offers a fresh perspective from a fierce abuse survivor. It's sure to pull SO MANY readers out of their pits of despair and give them hope for a brighter future once they get away from abusive relationships. Trauma bonds formed over long periods of time are difficult to break, but it can be done. Good education like what you'll find in this book is the key to making that first step toward the life God has waiting for you.

I routinely recommend this book to my clients, and I even referenced it as a resource to my own readers in my book, Crush Your Divorce & Keep Your Faith.

FIVE STARS!!!
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5.0 out of 5 stars An essential read for everyone, everywhere. Life changing material
Reviewed in the United States on April 11, 2024
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"Run Like Hell" is a profound and insightful book that sheds light on the harrowing reality of persevering through domestic abuse. Through meticulous research, extensive education, and poignant storytelling, Dr. Nae delves into the complex dynamics of a relationship with Pathological Lovers, offering a comprehensive understanding of the psychological and emotional toll endured by survivors. The book serves as a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit and provides invaluable insights into the strategies and resources available for those seeking to escape abusive environments or heal from past trauma bonds.

One of the most striking aspects of "Run Like Hell" is its ability to educate and inform without ever losing sight of the human experience at its core. Dr. Nae's compassionate and empathetic approach is evident throughout the book, making it not only a compelling read but also a vital resource for anyone touched by abuse. This book is a testament to the author's skill as a writer and advocate, and it stands as a beacon of hope for survivors everywhere. Dr. Nae, you are a champion for women <3.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Compelling, thought provoking, must read book!
Reviewed in the United States on April 9, 2024
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Whether you find yourself in a moment of personal trauma, supporting a friend in need, or simply intrigued by the subject matter, “Run like Hell' is a compelling must-read. Nadine skillfully breaks down complex topics into relatable and easily understandable narratives. By sharing personal and client experiences, she reassures readers that they are not alone in their struggles and provides a language to articulate these shared experiences.

Nadine's approach of illustrating real-life stories, dissecting them to explain the underlying issues, and identifying specific disorders is both enlightening and empowering. Furthermore, her provision of actionable strategies to recognize and address these challenges adds a practical dimension to the book's insightful content.

I bought this book for many friends.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A must have and a beacon of hope!!
Reviewed in the United States on January 9, 2024
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“Run Like Hell” has left an indelible impact on my healing journey. Written with compassion and expertise, this insightful guide offers a wealth of knowledge and practical advice for anyone seeking to break free from the chains of a trauma bond.

One of the strengths of this book lies in the author's exceptional writing style. The language used is accessible and easy to comprehend, making it suitable for readers at different stages of their healing process. The author's empathetic approach allows readers to feel understood and supported, creating a safe space for exploration and growth.

The clarity of information provided within the book is truly commendable. The author skillfully explains the dynamics of trauma bonds, shedding light on their effects on our emotional well-being. Through detailed examples and relatable anecdotes, the content becomes relatable and applicable to one's own experiences. This aspect of the book helped me gain a deeper understanding of my own trauma bond and ultimately empowered me to take the necessary steps towards healing.

I highly recommend this book to anyone who is currently struggling with a trauma bond or has experienced such a relationship in the past. It particularly benefits those who seek guidance and support through relatable stories and practical strategies. this book proves to be an invaluable resource in the healing process.

I want to express my profound gratitude to the author for writing such a transformative piece of work. It has not only impacted my life positively but also provided solace and guidance in my journey towards inner healing. I am truly grateful for the author's expert knowledge and their dedication to helping others overcome trauma bonds.

This book is a beacon of hope and a roadmap to reclaiming one's identity and finding true healing.
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5.0 out of 5 stars changed my life
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on March 13, 2024
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Thank you, after reading this I understand why I am overthinking and why
I have so much cognitive dissonance. I now have some great tools to continue my healing process and amazing guidance on how to go about finding love when I’m ready. I now understand the difference between a good man and a bad guy. A good guy is looking for intimacy and connection while a bad guy wants to be with you to use you for his own selfish reason in my experience, for status and other superficial reasons to make him look better and boost his ego. Finishing this book, I feel happy and hopeful
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